Agbaka Daniel

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

On this, I see so much sense in what he said.

Quite insightful 👍

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

For me, there is no man that knowingly married an older woman that did not do it for financial gains or possible connections for financial gains or societal status.

There was no love in it.

It is purely a transactional marriage for him.

And if she stops meeting up...

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[🦉 🧘🏽‍♂️spiRituaL🧘🏽‍♂️ @spiRiituaL]

I met a British guy at Heathrow Airport who looked like he was about to make the biggest mistake of his life.

His name was Mason.

We happened to be in the same airport lounge. His restlessness was what made me notice him.

He would sit down, stand up, look around, touch his head…

After a while, I forgot about him.

About an hour later, I went to board my flight and noticed the same guy again.

We were on the same flight.

While walking towards the aircraft, he paused a few times. Slowed down a few times. At one point, he looked like someone who had forgotten something important or someone who wasn’t sure he wanted to travel anymore.

We finally boarded.

He was in 4A.

I was in 5B.

So we were sitting pretty close.

Man was still restless... Scratching his head, covering his face with the blanket... Constantly adjusting himself.

I concluded that he had aviophobia just like me.

When we reached cruising altitude, he got up to use the toilet.

On his way back, our eyes clicked.

“You’re the guy I saw at the lounge earlier, right?”

I nodded.

We introduced ourselves properly.

I asked what he was going to Doha for and eventually mentioned that I had noticed how restless he had been since Heathrow.

He paused... Then continued

“I woke up one morning and made a decision. Right now, I’m living that decision… and I’m scared I might be making the wrong one.

I have lived in the UK for 35 years and worked in construction.

I clocked 35 last month, and since after my birthday, I have been questioning my purpose.

It feels like I have been living the same life... Same weather, same food, same feeling, and same people.

My friends and family don’t know I am on a plane to Asia to start again. Getting to the airport, I started missing everything and everyone. That is why I am restless.”

It wasn’t fear of flying.

It was fear of leaving everything familiar behind.

I asked him one question:

“If you abort this journey now and return home, do you think you’ll feel fulfilled?”

He thought about it.

Then said:

“No. I think sooner or later, I’ll regret it.”

I smiled.

“Then free yourself… and allow your spirit to guide you.”

From there, our conversation changed.

I told him about the countries I had visited in Asia.

I told him why I enjoyed Thailand.

Why I enjoyed Hong Kong.

Why I enjoyed the Philippines.

The people.

The experiences.

The freedom of discovering a version of yourself that your old environment never had the opportunity to meet.

And while we were talking, I could see and feel his restlessness disappear.

He became excited, curious, and motivated.

We talked about places he should visit, things he should experience, and how to build a social life from scratch.

I shared my address with him in Asia and told him to expect me soon.

I gave him Saheed’s number, my barber, and shared a few other contacts with him that could make his weekends busy and filled with activities.

By the time we landed in Doha… we had bonded so well.

Doha was my final destination, but Mason had another flight to catch.

His layover was about two hours so I stayed at the airport with him until it was time for him to board.

While we were waiting, he called his parents.

He told them everything.

Where he was.

What he had done.

Where he was going.

They wished him well.

I even spoke to them too.

Eventually, his flight was called and

[Dr Joe Abah, OON @DrJoeAbah]

Guys, whatever they say, try and own your own house by the time you turn 40. Even if it is one room, let it be one room somewhere on this earth that you own. You can choose to rent it out and be a tenant elsewhere, but have a house to your name.

I am Ezemmuo. I know things.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Sometimes, I just feel women wear makeup to mask their beauty.

Because women are more sexually appealing when they are without makeup.

If you doubt me, compare how you feel towards your partner when she's wearing makeup and how you feel when she's without it.

Especially when she's fresh out of the bathroom.

You'll feel like collecting one quick round.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

No matter how kind you are as a man, or how good a provider you are as a husband, it doesn't guarantee perfection.

There's always going to be at least one man out there whom your woman admires more than she admires you.

And she may even feel sexually attracted to him, sometimes.

But she just chose to stay "loyal" to you.

Because she is in control of her feelings.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If this video does not make some of you have sense, I wonder what will.

Just look what the family is going through because of religion.

And an innocent girl child is suffering because of it.

Really pathetic.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

From my DM:

This is a painful one from a young man, and I felt it. He sent this DM by 2am.

Please read 👇.

Good Morning Agba sir, my wish is that I could have the privilege of meeting you someday, sitting at your feet, learning as a boy would from his father. I don't know if this message would ever reach you, but I just feel like sending it to you, sir.

I'm a 33-year-old guy without his father, but I have my lovely mother who has always been there for me and my younger sister, right from my cradle till now. I'll be 34 by December.

Sometimes I just wish I had a dad who had taught me things a man should know from the very start.

Agba sir, I'm still finding my footing as a young man, not yet financially stable, and currently working as a Safety Officer for one of the Aviation Ground Handling Companies in Nigeria.

Agba sir, my main purpose of this message is: Why do I have a soft spot for women? (This is a question I have always asked myself.)

I want to marry right and well; I want to get it right in marriage. I want to be a dad; I want to be present for my children.

I want to be a loving husband to my God-ordained wife, but sir, I get scared if I'd ever find a woman I'd love so much to that point.

I'm presently not in a relationship, and my main concern is that I am not financially stable, I don't have a place of my own yet as I still stay with my mom, and I'm currently earning 200k, which is barely enough.

Agba, this message is scattered because I feel like talking to a dad. I want to be taught; I want to learn from you: how did you do it? How did you know your wife was the one? How did you become a man who could have a family of his own and provide for them?

Back at my workplace last year, I joined the company. I liked this girl a lot; she was a colleague. But she kept telling me, "I like you," and said she was in a relationship and wouldn't want to double-date.

And there's another colleague of mine, a guy, who she became friends with and got so close that I would feel jealous and angry inside, but he'd always maintain that they were just friends, and so on...

To cut it short, I was upgraded to a new department through an internal vacancy I applied for in December last year, 2025, and I officially resumed on June 3, 2026.

So this my friend who got close to this said lady, just messaged me yesterday and started telling me how he had uselessed her, had sex with her and dumped her for a new girl he just met.

Since yesterday, I have just been thinking about why I have a soft spot for people I like, looking forward to something good, but along the way, it doesn't turn out well.

Finally, sir, how would I know which one is right for me? I am sincerely asking as a son to a father.

Warm regards,

*His name*.

I need everyone to please advise him on my behalf.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Imagine say you wan lick toto and you just dey see white hairs everywhere.

And you are just 35 years old ooo.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Even as neighbors, your wife may just be secretly admiring your male neighbor that is also married.

Just because she sees that he's taking care of his wife and children, better than you're doing.

But she has shame.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

When you see a man marry a woman with low physical attributes or the she's older than he is.

It's mostly not because of love, but because she's either from a rich home, or she's rich, or because marrying her will give him access to riches or possible connections to riches.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

The only exception that I would make for men who married older women is if the men did not know about it.

But if you knowingly did it, you're most likely a gold digger and a user.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

When you marry a woman that is 5-10 years older than you, & you get to 35, you'll be the one plucking white hairs instead of her.

When you turn 50, you'll be massaging her waist, back & knees to relieve pains, instead of her.

And her teeth will decay before yours.

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

"My husband has never pretended to be a perfect man & he's not a hypocrite. Don't come & tell me what I already know about him. He's the one that I chose to be my husband & father of our children. Go and get married to your perfect husband and mind you stupid business".

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[Agbaka Daniel @AgbakaDaniel]

@AAAlhaji21 Try to close early from work on Mondays.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Good morning sir, Agba.

I want to get your opinion on the right thing to do at this point regarding my sister’s marriage.

It's about my sister and her husband. They have been married and have been living together for 6 years now, with 4 kids.

The guy was into "Yahoo" (fraud), but my sister deceived us and claimed he was involved in something important at the time she was introducing him to the family.

In fact, she claimed that the guy was into the importation business, and that was used to deceive us into thinking he was running a legitimate business.

Fast forward, after 4 years of marriage, Yahoo stopped paying him, and my sister has been managing the house and 4 kids since then.

She provides almost 95% of everything needed in the house, including the kids' school fees. They don't pay rent because they own their house.

Just yesterday. My sister got tired and I suspect she robbed it on his face badly and the man got angry and beat her up with both with belt and punches.

My sister told me she used abusive words on him, like “You are a useless man and staying home for years without thinking of finding a job and leaving everything about the house on me”.

And they both exchanged insults among themselves. She was taken to the hospital and blood was everywhere while her tooth was shaking.

My sister has been asked to return home with the younger child, who is just 1 year old. She has triplets, which is why there are 4 kids in 6 years.

I don't know if the right thing is to go back home. The husband has not been taking anyone’s calls, including those of my parents.

My brief:

Let your sister carry her cross. She went for illegitimate money and decieved you people so as to get married to him.

If she wants to return home to your parents, so be it, because the beating will not stop.

And if she decides to remain with her husband, she will continue to be the provider.

And I put it to you that the man has not stopped doing fraud, he has just not being able to cash out.

Your sister is facing the consequences of eating stolen money and feeding her children with it.

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[josephmmaduabuchi14 @josephmmadu]

Lustful/sexually undisciplined modern men think that overused and worn-out toto, two fallen bwests and overpressed one-sided nyansh are valuable and good gifts to offer.
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[josephmmaduabuchi14 @josephmmadu]

No court marriage and no white wedding.
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[Agbaka Daniel @AgbakaDaniel]

@AAAlhaji21 This is barbaric.

[josephmmaduabuchi14 @josephmmadu]

He may not have slept with her, but the truth remains that when a woman starts talking or gives access for calls/chat with a new dude, her character suddenly changes.
She'll become rude, disrespectful, disobedient, dishonest and start talking back at you.
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