I don’t know if I deserve forgiveness, but I need to tell my story.
I was with my girlfriend for almost seven years. She stayed with me when I had nothing. She believed in me when even I didn’t believe in myself.
I had a drinking problem. There were nights I would get completely drunk, lose control, and even urinate on our bed. She would clean up after me and still stay.
But it got worse.
I became violent. I beat her.
Looking back now, I honestly don’t understand how someone who loved me so much could endure what I put her through.
For years, she tried to help me change. She encouraged me to leave certain friends behind, changed the way I thought about life, pushed me to take my future seriously, and supported me as I tried to build something for myself.
She didn’t just love me; she invested herself in the man she believed I could become.
Then she discovered that I had children with other women.
After everything she had sacrificed for me, that discovery broke something in her.
She finally left.
For six years, she carried the trauma of what I had done to her. And eventually, she told me she could no longer continue living with the memories.
Today, I understand something I didn’t understand when I had her: you can lose someone who helped build you because you failed to protect the person who stood by you.
I regret the drinking. I regret the violence. I regret the lies. And I regret making her spend years paying the price for my mistakes.
I don’t expect her to come back.
I just hope she finds peace, and I hope other men learn from my story before they destroy someone who genuinely loves them.
If you were in her position, would you ever forgive a man like this?
— Anonymous
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