At our big age, it's definitely time to choose better & stop settling for less than we deserve. These niggas will sell you a dream & deliver a nightmare every time.
Celibacy is very easy when you realize that there’s literally no-one WORTH being inside of you if they aren’t helping to make you better & loving you correctly.
I hate when girls think we are at odds or in competition bc we had a man in common😭 that irritate me SO bad! Idc if it’s a old nigga, new nigga, my “bd,” your bd, whoever. I’m ME and you YOU, and my confidence don’t come from putting you down at the expense of a MAN😭 wth
For the longest, I thought my love language was physical touch but I just realized that it's word of affirmation. I love being told how much i'm loved, I love when people explain to me in detail how they feel about me and I love being told little things.
pls don't ever think i'll never leave 😭 when i love, i love hard and i'll stick it out as long as i can, but pls don't ever treat me like someone who will never leave bc baby i'll walk away and never look back. don't take the people who love you for granted.
I love calmness. i don't want to argue with anyone these days. i have learned to avoid difficult people. nothing is more precious than to live in peace.
I think when you’re evolving from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so strange, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings for once, because you’re so used to only thinking about others first.
gentle reminder that when you are in a new phase in life, its supposed to feel uncomfortable. you are learning to expand & take up space in a completely new way. you aren’t supposed to know what comes next. know this is a beautiful place to be, its where beautiful things are born
Men who teach you things are top tier. I’m not just talking about knowledge but men who actually teach u to grow in virtue. Like teach me how to forgive babe, teach me how to heal, teach me how to apologize, let me learn to be humble and meek. Water me and I’ll grow.