Once you start becoming immune to your mom's manipulation as a man thats when your relationship and understanding of your father's perspective starts to change
It’s manipulative how people label your anger as the real you, like your joy and kindness were an act. Emotions are all part of you. Being upset doesn’t expose a “true color,” it shows you’re human.
Majita chats at span are really hilarious. Ithi le chap that when on a date ‘always ask the waiter where the toilet is so she sees that you don’t take other babes to the same spot’ 😭😭😭
someone told me yesterday that when they feel nervous about trying something new & their heart starts beating really fast, that they call it their “inner applause” because their body is cheering them on, and i think that’s the best narrative adjustment ever.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.