You want to stay home, bake sourdough and have 9 kids? Wonderful!
But if another woman wants to go to med school and become the ob-gyn who helps you deliver those 9 kids, you don't get to guilt or shame her for HER CHOICE.
Another thing about me, I used to be very open about my sadness. Thought it made me human. Thought that vulnerability was my super power. On the flip side, I was always secretive about my happiness. I feared it would get snatched away from me if I was loud about it.
The thing I love about education is that it becomes yours. Lilifa lakho elingaboliyo, not a single person can take your education away from you. And this is why I will forever advocate for ukufunda. Iskolo gives you opportunities and options. Kwaye imfundo ayigugelwa.
your abusive father controlled his temper around coworkers, neighbors, friends, church members, cashiers, & strangers.
then he brought the rage home to people with less power to leave.
that was a choice he kept making.
I have a theory:
1. This Malawian went away weeks ago with other Malawians, and is being frames for a crime she didnt commit
2. The jewelery value is probably only R200k and now this employer is claiming a loss of R1 million coz thats how much they want claim from their insurance.