@GbengaWemimo Question sir. If as a wife she is bored or craves excitement, is walking away from the marriage the solution? Especially if the husband is a good man genuinely?
I once had a colleague in business development who could deliver 5 presentation decks in 2 days, his capacity was unmatched.
But when he had to lead a client pitch, he struggled. It wasn’t about the slides, it was about his capability to deliver the content of the slides.
Capacity = how much you can produce
Capability = the depth of skill that ensures what you produce has real impact
You might have the capacity to write ten reports a week, but do you have the capability to deliver one presentation that shapes business decisions?
The trap many career professionals fall into is stretching their capacity (taking more on, working longer hours), while neglecting to strengthen their capabilities (skills, strategy, influence).
Capacity can get you noticed, but capability keeps you relevant and that is where the true value of your work lies.
If your emergency fund is zero, your risk tolerance is only imaginary.
If you don’t have money set aside for emergencies, then you can’t truly afford to take investment risks - even if you think you can.
Until money comes, use what you have: Use knowledge, time, and relationships. Use time to gain knowledge. Use knowledge to build relationships that open doors money can’t.
Use relationships as leverage.
The right mix of these three will position you for the wealth you’re waiting for.
Keep showing up. Keep building. The tide will turn. #AsYouRiseToday
You’re already wealthy—your bank account just needs to catch up.
Hard to accept?
Money is a tool, a servant, a partner. You can attract it, retain it, and send it on errands. Stop chasing it; instead, master how to magnetize and multiply it.
Skill Up—VALUE.
#AsYouRiseToday
In 2025 ensure you have the following as you navigate your career:
- A mentor: an older person who has walked through a similar journey that you are embarking on
- A coach: a paid specialist who will help you understand yourself and how you show up and are experienced
- A sponsor: a senior executive who will always advocate for you. They typically pick you based on your hard work and diligence