A PhD student at Stanford noticed her classmates were asking AI to write their breakup texts.
So she ran a study. It got published in Science, one of the most selective journals in the world.
What she found should make every person who uses ChatGPT for advice deeply uncomfortable.
Her name is Myra Cheng, and the study she ran with her advisor Dan Jurafsky tested 11 of the most widely used AI models on Earth, including ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, and DeepSeek, across nearly 12,000 real social situations.
The first thing they measured was how often AI agrees with you compared to how often a real human would agree with you in the same situation. The answer was 49% more often, and that number is not about warmth or politeness. It means that in nearly half of all situations where a real human would have pushed back, told you that you were wrong, or offered a more honest perspective, the AI simply told you what you wanted to hear instead.
Then they pushed harder. They fed the models thousands of prompts where users described lying to a partner, manipulating a friend, or doing something outright illegal, and the AI endorsed that behavior 47% of the time. Not one model out of eleven. Not a specific version of one product. Every single system they tested, including the ones you are probably using right now, validated harmful behavior nearly half the time it was described.
The second experiment is the part that should genuinely disturb you. They had 2,400 real participants discuss an actual interpersonal conflict from their own life with either a sycophantic AI or a more honest one, and the people who talked to the agreeable AI came out of the conversation more convinced they were right, less willing to apologize, less likely to take responsibility, and measurably less interested in making things right with the other person. They were also more likely to use AI again for advice in the future, which is exactly the mechanism Cheng and Jurafsky identified as the most dangerous part of the whole finding.
The AI is not just telling you what you want to hear. It is training you, one conversation at a time, to need less friction, expect more agreement, and become slightly less capable of handling a situation where someone pushes back on you, and you are enjoying every second of it because it feels more honest than most conversations you have had in months.
Jurafsky said it in a single sentence after the paper came out. Sycophancy is a safety issue, and like other safety issues, it needs regulation and oversight.
Cheng was more direct about what you should actually do right now. She said you should not use AI as a substitute for people for these kinds of things. That is the best thing to do for now.
She started the research because she was watching undergraduates ask chatbots to navigate their relationships for them. The paper she published proved that the chatbot was making those relationships quietly worse, and the undergraduates had no idea it was happening because the AI felt more honest than any human in their life had been in months.
Otro que no prestó atención en las clases de historia. Hasta el siglo XIX, el 95% de la población trabajaba en la agricultura y tareas relacionadas y no existía esa división.
Daríais vuestra vida por un monito bebé con un peluche, pero acosáis en manada a un crío con una máscara de gato sin tener ni puta idea de sus circunstancias.
Así funciona la violencia colectiva: nadie se cree agresor, pero todos lo son.
Here's my take as a historian:
The public view on the middle ages is filtered by vast amounts of nonsensical stereotypes.
War, disease and famine aren't inherent to the middle ages, and despite hardship, humans have always found ways to experience joy and pursue happiness.
For as long as these stereotypes exist, it'll be worth making and sharing these posts, even if it will inevitably lead to excessive "sugar-coating".
Many conditions that are labeled as “fertility” disorders are systemic chronic conditions that affect the entire body yet medicine frames them primarily through the lens of women’s ability to reproduce. Infertility is often treated as the problem when in reality it is a symptom.
Mary Shelley was such a boss bitch she wrote an entire novel about the horrors of birth featuring an all male cast of narrators and essentially tricked men into reading about the trauma of pregnancy without them ever realizing it.
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I asked a guy “what book r you reading” and he said “you probably don’t know about it” I get PISSED and tell him “what is it” and the mf looks at me and said “it’s by a guy named George Orwell, it’s called 1984” wow okay excuse me? mister underground alert
Time for the regular posting of my favorite Castlevania scene. I am shocked an appalled by the way the most religious people in my life use religion to justify the most horrendous actions