Don Paciencias

I hit my peak at seven 🍂 He/Him/Él.
Escribí Lo que es Correcto📚

[Don Paciencias @AleexFR13]

Este año termino de escribir mi libro. (Se que no les importa, pero lo pongo para sentirme comprometido.)

[Don Paciencias @AleexFR13]

@peachmonay @khiyoomii

[nay @peachmonay]

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[Belén Aguilera Charts @BelenAgCharts]

Belén Aguilera y Dani Fernández interpretan “Si te vas” de Extremoduro en los #Goya2026 en honor a las personas fallecidas 🥹❤️‍🩹

[Petry 🧜🏽‍♀️ @Petrypsique]

Les voy a hacer una recomendación muy especial:

No le escriban a nadie con quien tienen tiempo sin hablar con frases como:

-hola perdido(a)
-si no te escribo no sé de ti
-me tienes abandonado(a)

O cosas parecidas, eso solo ahuyenta a la otra persona ¿saben por qué? Porque son frases manipuladoras.

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

You don’t really understand this until you’ve had a few almosts

A few dates where the conversation was fine, the food was decent, they laughed at the right moments, you nodded, you smiled, you did all the human things, and then you went home and felt nothing. Not heartbreak. Not excitement. Just this blank, polite calm like you finished a meeting. You lay in bed at 00:26 scrolling for a little dopamine hit because the whole night didn’t land anywhere in your body

Or you meet someone who is objectively great on paper and your brain keeps trying to force it. They’re kind. They show up. They text back. They’re stable Your friends approve. And still, when you’re alone with them, something in you stays locked. You can’t explain it without sounding insane. “They’re perfect, I just… don’t feel it.” So you keep going for a while because you want to be normal and grateful and adult. Then one day you realize you’ve been living on a mild sedation. Not unhappy, not alive.

That’s when the math hits you.

Real connection is not common.
not even close

We talk about it like it should be easy because there are billions of people and apps and “put yourself out there” and a culture that makes love sound like a buffet. Pick someone. Swipe. Upgrade. Repeat. But genuine click is not about access. It’s about alignment. And alignment is rare in a way people don’t want to admit because it makes the world feel colder.

Think about what has to line up for it to happen

Two nervous systems that don’t trigger each other into shutdown.
Two senses of humor that match.
Two levels of intensity that don’t leave one person feeling chased and the other feeling abandoned.
Two life rhythms that can actually share air.
Two people who find each other at the same time in their lives, not one ready and the other half asleep.
Two sets of wounds that don’t hook into each other like velcro.
Two people whose idea of “home” is compatible.

That’s before you even get to attraction. Before you get to values. Before you get to sex. Before you get to the boring reality of laundry and bills and sickness and family and the way people change.

then add the fact that we are all walking around with invisible histories. Old loves. Old betrayals. Childhood stuff. Self-protection habits we pretend are personality traits. Half the time you’re not even meeting the person. You’re meeting the version of them they think will be safe to show.

when you genuinely click with someone, it feels like a miracle not because you’re dramatic, but because your body knows the odds.

It knows how many conversations you’ve had where you were translating yourself.
How many times you laughed a second late.
How many times you edited your excitement so you wouldn’t seem like too much.
How many times you didn’t say what you meant because you didn’t trust the room to hold it.

Then one day you say something stupidly specific, like a childhood memory nobody else cares about, and they don’t just listen - they light up. They understand the joke inside it. They catch the tone behind the words. They respond like they’ve been waiting for that exact frequency.

That moment is fragile in a way people don’t respect.

Because it’s not just “we get along.” It’s “my nervous system recognizes yours.”

And you can lose it so easily. Not always through some dramatic betrayal. Sometimes just through timing. Distance. Life getting heavy. People getting scared. Someone’s depression turning them into fog. Someone’s ambition turning them into absence. One bad season where you stop choosing each other and start surviving side by side. It doesn’t take a villain. It just takes neglect, which is so much more common.

That’s why connection is beautiful. Not because it’s poetic.

Because THIS improbable

[Leire Martínez @LeireMo]

Historias de aquella niña // 20.02.2026

Después de un año de mucho trabajo, ya llega el momento de "abandonar" las canciones para que las hagáis vuestras. Sé que las trataréis con cariño y me hace muchísimas ilusión!
Mañana a las 12h podréis hacer la pre-venta 🥹❤️

[marta ☆ @pianolaindigo]

pov: escuchas anela en orden

[Tamairy Cabrera @tamairycabrera]

Les traigo cuentos:

Una chama falleció de una enfermedad terminal, murió joven, no llegaba a los 30's. Su familia, en lugar de hacer un velorio decidieron hacer las cosas diferentes:

Todos se vistieron del color favorito de la fallecida.

[Tania @moviditas_]

Ya lo decía Albert Camus: «Porque querer a una persona no es sólo decirlo, y ni tan siquiera sentirlo, es hacer los movimientos que eso requiere».

[love drops @lovedropx]

— sylvia plath

[AMI🏹 @forthelifeofami]

Stop falling for the “low maintenance” friendship propaganda. They’re not low maintenance with that man they like. they text back, show up and stay consistent. But with you? Silence becomes unspoken loyalty and distance is bonding? You’re being played and used as a placeholder

[El Karma Es Un Gato❤️‍🔥 @KarmaIsACat_5]

Me gustas tanto que si me dieran a elegir entre una cena contigo o con Taylor Swift le hablaría a Taylor sobre tí.

[Don Paciencias @AleexFR13]

Vivo más tranquilo desde que acepté que inevitablemente voy a ver las historias en IG a los minutos de que las suban, nimodoooo

[𐙚˙ @bvlgazri]

sometimes a song, sometimes a message

[Ismael López Gálvez @Ismaellg90]

V.

[Don Paciencias @AleexFR13]

Mis 4 mejores lecturas en lo que va del año🤓

[noa @noacostasc]

algunas de mis lecturas favoritas del año ⭐️ (anagrama no patrocina este tuit)

[Tania Tagle @Tania_Tagle]

Sean intensos, permítanse explotar de amor y de rabia, sean ruidosos, hablen con pasión de lo que aman. Nadie que viva con temor a verse cursi o dar cringe es realmente feliz.

[✶ @uxcel]

unfortunately, i'm not nonchalant or mysterious i'm just a naturally awkward person who becomes talkative once i'm comfortable