For real. She’s not exaggerating. Malignant narcissist parents and family are TRYING to psychologically and medically destroy their scapegoat children to death. Literally. Either by “suicide” or other tragic event. That’s their secret goal. It cleans up any possibility of exposure or accountability.
She really is lucky. They WERE trying to kill her.
@lorahmoe Why get them? Short nails are neat, easy to keep clean, they don’t break and you can use your hands properly. Easy to do yourself. Spend money on more important things. Men don’t get them, why judge women who don’t. Yet another beautification standard designed by men, for men.
His mum had more than half a million in the bank & £500k property but when she ended up needing surgery he put her in a shitty nhs care home where she was mistreated. She died at home soon after. He deliberately made sure the money wasn’t spend on her care so he inherited it all.
I’ve been trying to have a convo with her for the past 20 years without her getting distracted, telling me to “hurry up” within 15s of me talking, shouting, having a tantrum, being critical, blaming me and failing to take accountability.
After ignoring her for 4 days she’s texting asking if I want to talk tomorrow. What a coincidence as it’s Mother’s Day then. Too late. Nothing will have changed, narcissists never do. Reasonable people have limits. My limit has exceeded 19 years ago but because she was mum
@james_xond No. Depends why they don’t like dogs. Maybe they were attacked as a child. Maybe they learned fear from their parents. Maybe they’re allergic. Judging people who feel differently from you is a red flag more than anything.
She was told the divorce money wouldn’t last the rest of her life. That was 24 years ago. She could have gone to work, chose not to. She’s done nothing her entire life but cleaned her home, complained, be depressed, and blamed me for ruining her life. I.e. lazy narcissist.
A narcissist's idea of a "perfect relationship" goes like this: They do whatever they want. You say nothing.
They expect unlimited freedom for themselves... and unlimited tolerance from you.