@jonnym1ller But there are other factors at play too- all things that build trust- feeling heard, accepted, and supported is also about how they hold their attention with us, and our confidence in their unconditional positive regard. Same goes for us coaches!
@jonnym1ller There ‘s been a significant amount of research into what makes therapy work or not work and the very famous studies conclude that the relationship we have with our therapist is the single largest contributing factor in its success. Co-regulation I’m sure plays a part in this.
@zoescaman Yes we had the same with our toddler too, we just pushed through, gave her very short baths during the screaming phase and a few months later she was back to liking them again
@rhughesjones Yes I think it is a great story but a lot of my clients (sounds like yours too) have tried to take it as model. Still, it’s a good start but I don’t base my work on it preferring more researched models like Creating The Team Edge by Lucy Widdowson and Paul Barber.
Starting Day 2 of OCEANOVATION with a session “Why building a world class company culture is crucial for your success” at our main stage with John Wedge Auckland, Natalie Gilson, Alice Driscoll, Mariska Van Ijzerloo 🤩
@zoescaman This is the absolute worst bit. This too shall pass…but also try to be flexible with feeding if you hit a wall, consider bottles at night, go easy on yourself.
@zoescaman Absolutely loved mine- recently stopped using it (it’s the new double stride and I used it to exclusively pump for 6 weeks) and now selling it If you are interested. If you prefer you can buy new attachments and re-use the pump (the expensive bit).
@zoescaman This is where NCT comes into its own… WhatsApp is where it is at at 4am with mums who have the same age baby as you. Has to be within days/weeks of yours as they change to quickly!
@jonnym1ller@tomcritchlow@david_perell I love this, I think the idea of moving from reacting (uncontrolled) to responding (considered) is huge for many people. It’s a compelling proposition!