I think i will find my equilibrium by being a good mirror here.
Findom community is toxic as hell, i knew it as a submissive and a know it now as a dominant as well.
So that's what i will do from now on.
@Coastalbunny That's not true, that is what unfulfilled and not happy subs do. There is a difference between let someone down and just feeling sad or feeling grief.
Many subs need to work on their emotional permanence.
@Coastalbunny It's about ethics and what someone looks from findom and D/s dynamics. True connection and true submission requires time and safety. Gooners who send to use You as a kink dispenser are not suitable to connect with on a deeper level.
@finsub2beauty2 Oh, what a poor, bent soul. I Wish You can feel the good sensation again, while someone praises your devotion and You feel reconnected to the universe.
@mermaidbecky It's absolutely ok! Unluckily, the common narrative is made to divide men and women and make us fight over stupid things...because teaching everyone respect and civic behaviour is not profitable for society
@mermaidbecky It's a popular narrative that men in the gym have to forcefully avoid any kind of reaction at women body in fear of being judged and labeled. A way for men to say "this is how feminism is killing out freedom" or "we are victims." Yeah, sure, You are...
@sensual_xsplash Dear Splash, careful, on this path You might become a finswitch!
Jokes aside, is beautiful to see Dommes supporting each other. You are a real one for that!
@mermaidbecky @Coastalbunny I absolutely find that One of those things that should not be done even if someone finds it hot.
It's a huge disrespect and if someone has this fantasy, they should keep it a fantasy. But i also understand that sometimes people fail at controlling their urges.
@Hwk4256 I mean You could celebrate the 30th day by sending this way haha
Or You could fetishize failing by relapsing just before it but it's unsafe and i don't recommend it, it's for huge masochists.
I am proud of You for resisting this long!