this is the most sure of myself i’ve ever been in my life. i have such a clarity of mind. i love myself. i am loved. i love others. i know who i am. i know who i want to become. and i am also very sexy
I highly recommend having a clingy and lovey dovey partner. Life is too short to be with someone who acts like it’s painful to show that you love someone.
nobody. gives. Up. on.someone. they. actually. want. to. keep. in. their. life. no. matter. how. hard. it. gets. they'll. find. a. way. to. be. with. you.
your soulmate is someone who's committed to working things out w you & doesn't see breaking up as an option. they're willing to have difficult convos & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, confident, & happy in your relationship
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
being in a state of melancholy is so weird bc how do I explain that I can laugh and giggle all day but I feel this persistent wave of sadness that lingers through me all the time
Maturity is realizing that a relationship can work and actually be fixed in almost any situation. It just takes the both of you to actually want it to work and correct what you're doing that is hurting your partner.