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Traumagenic D.I.D. System of 1000+/23/She/Her for the body/🇨🇦/Engaged/Pan and Poly/Pagan

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@HollowPuff But we hope you get a great night of rest and we got your back! 🥰❤💕🥰💞❤💕🥰

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@HollowPuff I know we barely talk but we want to say that we think you're amazing and the little bit we have talked you've been so helpful ❤ For you and everyone else that had to deal with that hate I'm so sorry, you're valid and amazing in the community, stay strong!

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@HollowPuff We did add something because we were mad lol. Our partner system is basically the poster child for the DSM-5 criteria lol and they were like "uh we're diagnosed and have everything they say is fake so...". We have enough crap in our lives as it is, we don't need extra hate

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@HollowPuff As someone who was actually groomed by another system in the past, this disgusts me that they'd attack you like this when you're so sweet and awesome ❤💕❤💕💞💕❤

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@Gramh_The_Bard @calioninspires If you don't even believe in the disorder why are you even engaging? People like you are the exactly the reason we are stigmatized. Without my system, I would be dead. Would you prefer that? Please, be honest. I'd love to tell my therapist that a random person on twitter said so.

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@Gramh_The_Bard @calioninspires You know what, I DO suffer from my disorder. Because people like you go around attacking others. Research comes from a mix of other things as well as personal stories. Freckles are not a criteria of being human, yet I have them. Does that mean I'm faking being human??

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I love when our coworker mansplains OUR religion to us, one he isn't even part of

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Well shit guys if you have more than 3 how are we doing this? Am I throwing some in the trash, can I like auction them off or what? I'd looooove to get down to just 3 things wrong in my head 😂

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@dontattack_pls TW substance use //
We personally are always with our partner when intoxicated and they put on YouTube videos they know the little will enjoy and mostly just keeps them calm until we fall asleep 😊

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@CainUnashamed The amount of people I just heard shout "I volunteer!!!!" Is waaaaay too many lol

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 Yep, it was super harmful to us :/

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 Ikr?? They said that like a real alter wouldn't have any memories (which usually in our case our introjects have more mems than "ocs") which meant anyone who split and knew anything about themselves was apparently fake lol

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 Liking**

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 1/2 The same thing basically happened to us. The few endos we became friends with were very abusive to us and our partner system. Two so bad that we split literally hundreds of alters in a 2 year span. They heavily groomed us into thinking we were endos and our trauma/some alters

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 3/3 So the plural community is very triggering for us and our partner system and we do our best to avoid them. And thank you for your thread, we've gotten hate in the past for not like that community despite it almost driving us/our partner to suicide

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@cl0v3r_m1r4cl3 2/3 were fake. We were told our introjects were just me (host) kinning because "real" alters don't know their source or anything about themselves. They almost manipulated our fiance into leaving us because we didn't agree with their ideology.

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Me, front stuck: If I self harm again someone would have to come out right to protect the body?
My co-host across the front: ALL YOU'LL BE GETTING IS AN ASS WHOOPING
//not super srs

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Does anyone actually have a good birthday ever? Or does everyone's mom imply that having you ruined their life and the thousands of dollars you've spent on expensive presents for her weren't "worthwhile"??

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Probably going to get to hate but FRIENDLY REMINDER kink does NOT belong at Pride UNLESS it's at after parties, bars, etc events that are 18+. Any time else when you're in public, no.
In case anyone comes at me. I'm a polyamorous, genderfluid, pansexual engaged to a female body

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Tips for people with an Anna (frozen) introject: When cofronting with her, don't look at/speak/think about the chocolate you're trying to hide. On a totally unrelated subject: my chocolate is gone ☹ #dissociatwt