Ideally life should feel like Animal Crossing. You’re hanging out. Going to the beach. Eating fresh fruit. You are a little in a hole financially but it’s fine
One time I was trying to figure out where my parents hid my DS and I found a bunch of books called stuff like "Caring for the 'Special' Child" and "The 'Difficult' Child: A Roadmap"
I’m so serious, if you can learn to love bugs, you will find wonder under every leaf and stone. Your world suddenly becomes filled with even more reasons to be curious.