@emhai0909 If their main criterion for choosing a wife is how "cheap" she is, then they may well be the very men who have already been rejected in their own country.
@emhai0909 I feel that many Chinese men want to marry Southeast Asian women because they see them as cheap, while marrying women from their own country means having to pay a bride price. Men like this generally don't have much else to offer. To be on the safe side, don't date Chinese men.
@x7k9r2tq3bvm They may also have reinforced the stereotype that Japanese women are gentle, submissive, and make good wives.
Seeing this situation makes us feel very conflicted and unhappy, too.
@x7k9r2tq3bvm Some Chinese men, after reading articles by Japanese women, assume that you hate Chinese women just as much as they do. They think you must understand why they hate Chinese women so much. They feel like they've finally found someone who shares their views and is on their side.
@vxnnvl@qfvetj@mioskylar Actually, we all dislike him, especially young Chinese users who can access the international internet (that is, people here).
@vxnnvl@qfvetj@mioskylar During that period, he made no attempt to discourage their behavior. In fact, many online users felt that his articles had encouraged his fans to act that way. He made no response to the incident at all until he finally posted something about it the following year.
@mioskylar and some users whose lives revolved around AO3 and relied on it for emotional support suffered mental breakdowns.
It felt like everything was chaotic, tense, and out of control at the time. It was as if everything had collapsed overnight, and I felt completely lost and helpless.
@mioskylar As an ordinary online user who wasn't deeply involved, I watched from the outside as many authors were unable to continue updating their works. Many people living overseas said they wanted to help publish their works for them, and some users whose lives revolved around AO3