Therapists sometimes act like everything someone says is valid and worthy of consideration and that’s my biggest problem with them. It is also useful to know when to say to someone “what you just said is stupid”.
Update: we crossed paths again in the lobby just now and he choked on air and avoided eye contact lol I suspect he’s figured out where he knows me from 😭😭😭😭😭😭
this clip and Orna's very measured response brings to mind for me why Iyanla was so satisfying bc she would have called him a deadbeat and hurled tomatoes at him while making him complete a potato sack race