It’s giving “ I won’t say anything cause he’s my brother “ but when you fall out you call him all type of names . I bet if bravo was still “her brother “ she wouldn’t be crashing out here azenza I activist edakiwe
And now, remarkably, the conversation has shifted from the man’s documented conduct to interrogating the woman who dares to question it.
I only became aware of the incident after leaving the house. But even if I had known earlier, since when does the timing of a woman’s objection determine the seriousness of a man’s conduct?
How fascinating, and frankly frightening, that in a discussion about gender-based violence, some people’s first instinct is not to examine the behaviour in question, but to scrutinise the woman raising it.
The man becomes the subject of forgiveness. The woman becomes the subject of interrogation.
And we wonder why confronting GBV remains such an enormous challenge.
Accountability does not acquire an expiry date simply because the conversation makes people uncomfortable.
This warrants a video
I find it profoundly disturbing that I have spent much of today witnessing people defend or minimise conduct of this nature. The extent to which some are willing to rationalise it raises questions far more troubling than the incident itself.
So I ask, without fear of contradiction: How seriously are we, as a society, committed to fighting gender-based violence when our standards of accountability appear so inconsistently applied?
South Africa speaks passionately about fighting gender-based violence, yet I find myself increasingly fascinated by the leniency we afford men when their conduct raises serious questions about women’s safety.
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