I do not write to entertain you,
but to remind you of things you already know, yet choose to ignore. For life reveals itself in patterns - in relationships, in choices, in consequences. If you are willing to reflect, stay. If not, you may pass by.
When your woman wakes up one morning and suddenly decides to leave the relationship.
That decision started building quietly months before the actual breakup happened,
Even while both of you were still doing lovey dovey, laughing
without looking back too much.
I will say they're not necessarily evil. Its just nature.
Women naturally move strongly according to what they feel is best for their future and emotional security.
Another reason some women stay longer is fear of loneliness.
It's the action, not the fruit of the action, that's important.
You have to do the right thing.
You may never know what results come from you action.
But if you do nothing, there will be no result.
A lot of you are still in the dark.
Your thinking and expectations do not align with reality.
You are moving through life based on feelings and fantasies.
@Morris_Monye Expects him to provide for his wife, children, parents, siblings, and even extended family.
As a man, whether you like it or not, you're expected to carry others along.
@Morris_Monye Society places different expectations on men and women.
A successful man is judged by how many people he can support, while a successful woman is judged by her own personal achievements/ comfort.
A man's success spreads across a wider circle because society
Expects him to provide for his wife, children, parents, siblings, and even extended family.
As a man, whether you like it or not, you're expected to carry others along.
Society places different expectations on men and women.
A successful man is judged by how many people he can support, while a successful woman is judged by her own personal achievements/ comfort.
A man's success spreads across a wider circle because society
Back to what I was saying yesterday
If God blesses you, your wife and kids are lifted
If God blesses your wife, then the burden is less on you.
If you raise 1,000 men, there is a chance that 1,000 new families are created.
If you raise 1,000 women, then there will be 1,000 more comfortable women.
This is the honest to God truth from God Himself.
@mrteji_ Alright, here's your list to her.
1. No monthly allowance.
2. No emergency that your emergency money can not see.
3. No male besties.
4. If you cheat, keep the 600k. Just keep moving.
5. No transfer for the first 3 months. To be sure is not all about money.
Alright, here's your list to her.
1. No monthly allowance.
2. No emergency that your emergency money can not see.
3. No male besties.
4. If you cheat, keep the 600k. Just keep moving.
5. No transfer for the first 3 months. To be sure is not all about money.
@jon_d_doe To me, that's one of the core responsibilities of being the head of the home.
If slipting of bills (I'd call it support) comes in, it should only be on food, the children school fees, utility bills, other bills... and definitely not rent or the roof over the family heads.
@jon_d_doe Maybe I'm old fashioned, but i have always believed that if a man is not yet able to handle the roof over the family's head, he should take more time before starting a family.
I'd welcome support from my wife, but I don't see rent as a bill that should be split.
To me, that's one of the core responsibilities of being the head of the home.
If slipting of bills (I'd call it support) comes in, it should only be on food, the children school fees, utility bills, other bills... and definitely not rent or the roof over the family heads.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but i have always believed that if a man is not yet able to handle the roof over the family's head, he should take more time before starting a family.
I'd welcome support from my wife, but I don't see rent as a bill that should be split.
I don't know why a man will say that he wants to marry a wife, and he would be asking her to split the rent of the house he brought her into.
If you cannot put a roof over your wife's head and on your pocket alone, then you're not man enough to claim the head of your home.
End.