I don’t like it. They always use it as some diss and then try to dress it up like, “That’s not what I was really saying.” No, that’s what you were really saying. And it’s stupid at this point that gays have to explain that we may not want you in a sexual nature, but we adore everything about you and honestly would never do the shit that this man did to you. Some people can be pieces of shit. That don’t make him gay. He can be an unevolved person with no manners or couth.
@ThePaintNBA don’t care if he was picky, rude, an etiquette freak, or just an asshole. But everything a man does that you don’t like does not automatically make him gay. Sometimes a person is simply a piece of shit. That don’t make him gay. Stop using “gay” as the diss.
Don’t just like or click something because it sounds good. Actually read it and understand what you are agreeing with. Sometimes something can sound empowering on the surface, but the mindset behind it deserves some thought.
No revenge because the mind goes where you take it. Don’t chase madness if you want peace. The best version of yourself requires peace, strength, and maturity, and dare I say, God to help you through your journey. Getting a lick-back mentality is deeply problematic if that’s what you think of on your way to having peace.
@NkemSolomo4sue Little Revision: God is Ready to Bless You as if the setback was apart of the Plan.For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Facts( But add Maturity to that and now you cooking with grease). Don’t just be real all day without knowing how to be Real , Realness can cost you if there is no Maturity with it.
Never did I say blk people weren’t violent. I said you’re never gonna get an accurate count first off because there has never been a time where Black Americans were over anything. Especially society wise ( like and FBI ) to give any details of actual stats. And because of that fact. YT people have historically covered up , buried , thrown out, manipulated, and got away with a hellva lot more crimes even to this day. And just because you don’t have data on it . It won’t show you the truth of what never got recorded. Just like there can be a prison fight for example: the person who keeps up with that information might say it was only 25 fights when in actuality it was 45 fights that day. So it depends on how accurate that person choose to tell the story or not tell it. As there weren’t any cameras around to record things like we have today ma’am sir.
So I belong to this category I get along with people who respect me. White, Black, Mexican, Arab, Asian, gay, straight—it doesn’t matter. The line gets crossed for me when someone goes out of their way to be disrespectful.
Skinny, fat, short, tall, young, old—it doesn’t matter. I give grace when necessary, but there’s a limit, and some days that limit may vary because I’m human.
I try to walk above the fray and would help anyone, but the moment disrespect enters the game, we’ve got an issue. I’ll remove myself from the encounter before I give you another thought. That’s me protecting my peace. I’m not entertaining the bullshit from anyone.
That’s just my take. Everyone has an opinion, and that’s mine.