One thing is to encourage someone; another is for that person to have their own drive and ambition. You cannot want someoneโs growth more than they want it for themselves.
Something funny happened just now.๐๐
My brother dressed up like he was going somewhere tonight. He told me he was going out, and I casually said, โOkay, close the door behind you.โ
This guy turned around and asked, โDonโt you like me?โ ๐ญ๐
He said, โAt least try to stop me. Donโt you like me ni?โ๐ฅน๐ญ๐
I just told him, Donโt worry, get lost first to know if I like you and I know you canโt get lost ๐คฃ๐คฃ
I canโt stop laughing ๐ญ๐
Apparently, he expected me to stop him and say, โLook at the time, where are you going?โ
I told him, โYouโre an adult. Why would I stop you? Besides, even if I tell you not to go, you wonโt listen. Na wetin dey your mind you go still doโ ๐