my friends and i talk alll the time about how if you hold a certain politic niggas think you low maintenance. like yea i do hold space for fluid masculinities rooted in self-determination but you still gon have to pay for this date bae 💔
“shawty with the blue hair who wants to go to the coffee shop… that’s my kinda date” this is the koko of the matter. they’re using bell hooks and queer theory to tell you they don’t want to pay for dates
you gotta proceed with caution with c!shet men who say they prefer dating queer women + queer feminine-presenting ppl. niggas only want to engage in the deconstruction of gender when it’s time to pay a bill fr
Kc is literally foaming at the mouth at Aniya being embarrassed when he brings Titi back to the villa.....Aniya I'm on my knees please don't go back single he's literally planning to embarrass you!
in the first couple of episodes he had that conversation with aniya about still living in fresno and him lamenting over never having made a big leap in life. his cowardice reflects clearly in all aspects of life
yk if u have mothering tendencies in your romantic relationships a guiding framework my therapist gave me was like. Are you trying to provide the experience for your partner, or are you trying to share an experience with your partner?
I know I’m projecting when I say this, because I’m a victim of domestic violence, but I also know the facts. The last thing you want as a woman, is a man that has financial control over you. Always have something on the side. Don’t ever give a man that type of power over you.