Marriage will expose you. Your anger. Your ego. Your trauma. It is not your partner. It is you on loudspeaker.
When you live alone, you can hide your flaws. Nobody sees your temper. Nobody sees your selfish side. Nobody sees how you shut down when things get hard.
Marriage removes the cover.
The small habits become big issues. The way you talk when upset. The way you handle money. The way you deal with stress. Everything shows.
Many people say, “My spouse triggers me.” Sometimes that is true. But many times, marriage just reveals what was already inside you.
It is like a mirror you cannot avoid.
The mature partner will say, “What is this teaching me about myself?” The immature one will blame all day.
Marriage is not only about loving someone else. It is about growing up.
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Guys, we are not here to judge but, as a married man, wherever you go, make sure that you go back home
to sleep. Don’t sleep outside unless you are not in town.
Don’t go and hang with friends (of any sort) and get so carried away that you do not go home.
Even when you are home alone, make sure that you sleep at home.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
Please lest we forget:
The Nigerian Supreme Court sentenced a helpless farmer Sunday Jackson to death by hanging for killing a terrorist herdsman out of legitimate self-defense when the herdsman attacked him on his farm.
The court ruled that Jackson should have fled despite Jackson being stabbed by the terrorist who attacked him.
Instead of justice, he has now being sentenced him to death for murder. If we say nothing, the Nigerian government will kill Jackson after they failed to protect him from terrorists pretending as herdsmen.
Pls kindly lend your voice.
#Freesundayjackson #FreeSundayJackson
This is what the South Korean government does for you once you become pregnant. This is how a government priorities and cares for its pregnant women.
You can only watch this from our country and say “God When”. And no, this is not a skit or a movie.
YOU CAN DO AMAZING THINGS FROM THE SMALLEST PLACES.
It's a surreal moment for VULN-BANK as it crosses 200 stars on @github and gets officially listed on the @owasp Vulnerable Web Applications Directory)!
I’m an Incident Responder on the AWS Customer Incident Response Team (CIRT). And I get asked a lot of questions, like:
“Where do I even start with incident response in the cloud?”
Here’s a beginner-friendly thread on AWS IR tips — with a few lessons I learned 🧵👇
If you're reading this, and you haven't found 'your person' yet, I truly hope that you do. Also, I pray that when they come around, you're able to recognize them and allow yourself to receive the love you've prayed for. You deserve love, in it's truest form. 🧡