🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑

Just a fangirl in between fandoms. Adult. AuDHD. Occasional NSFW. AO3 Apologist. Anti-censorship for fiction. Aroace-spec. 🍉 pfp: @zerii_chan

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

I learned a new word

[J🇺🇸 @the_fem_tm]

Women make accurate social risk assessments all the time and are much much better at it than men are. This is a classic case of male solipsism where they can’t see risk or literally anything else from a point of view other than their own.

[frances 🏒 @IlyasCigarette]

does anyone else have a fic (from any fandom) that has stuck with them for literal years and even all this time later when i’m no longer in that fandom i still regularly think about how beautiful it was and hope that the author is still writing in some capacity

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

This.

Grieving is coming to terms with what your life will be like after a loss.

If you haven’t figured out all the areas in your life that are influenced by the loss, then the grief is bound to come back for another round.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

What’s the grief milestone nobody prepares you for? Not the funeral. Not the first year. The weird specific one nobody talks about.

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

@bee_my_girl As a Christian, I feel the need to say a lot of us don’t understand that evangelism requires that the recipient sees value in what you are sharing.

Like, if God is homophobic, why would people want a relationship with him? Etc. Seems like it applies here.

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

@alyssaleann Well, technically you could change again.. this time together
But of a hassle tho

[Doe ♡ @DoeEyedGirlie]

AO3 is not social media, it's a library. Fanfic is not content, it's a hobby. Fic writers are not published authors who should stay out of fan spaces. They ARE fans. Fic readers are not clients or customers, they're fellow fans. The sooner people realise all that, the better.

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

@sofiaicarbone I think not knowing the age babies start solids is normal. I also think people are very bad at estimating baby ages.

They just need to lead with “is she eating solids yet?” if they’re not sure.

But the first month or so is still quite young to assume they’re weaning.

[Leon🕊⚰️ @bluescreened800]

Every week someone calls for censorship of certain works on AO3. Are they not aware that this site was built for the sole purpose of opposing censorship?

What happened to "don't like, don't read"? "Ship and let ship"?
That's what tags are for, so u can avoid what u don't like.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

Autism: I need to understand why the rule exists.
ADHD: I need the rule to make immediate sense or I’m ignoring it.
AuDHD: Explain the rule, make it logical, keep it brief, and don’t be surprised when I’ve already found the loophole.

[taha @KhanStopMe]

if you grew up min/max-ing your stats in video games

you were this child unironically

[roro, PhD @fuglibetty]

Ever since I was a young child I yearned to synthesise workflows and streamline operational processes

[Libriscent @libriscent]

ADHD is misjudging the doorway and shoulder-checking the wall like it came outta nowhere.

[b @wwxwashere]

reminder that unless you private your bookmarks on ao3 EVERYONE CAN SEE THEM, including the author. either be nice or keep that shit to yourself!!!!

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

@_sorrengailll I hate lotion on wet/damp skin, but baby oil on wet skin is fairly easy to do. Locks in the moisture before it evaporates or is towelled off. Just gotta make sure you apply enough pressure to push through any surface water.
It’s cheap and safe enough for babies.

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

@TheSalonDon A small capacity oven is so useful tho.

[🦄 Arctic 🪓🟩⚒️🐷👑 @Arcticstar0]

This is probably my only extreme stat from my YouTube 2025 Recap.

[b @wwxwashere]

i know you did not read that one right

[Zoya🕊️ @Zoya_ki_batein]

My type >>