Ppl’s idea of discipline is rooted in punishment/removing excess from their lives. I didn’t grow up or navigate adulthood living in excess, so my idea of discipline is not about restrictions/removing the negative; it’s about adding *more* to my life that is positive to enhance it
this concept of “non-attachment” that’s floating around is rubbing me the wrong way. all of it just sounds like protecting yourself from being disappointed, when we should be learning better ways to handle the disappointments big and small that we experience as human beings.