Aroha'Space

Be Well!

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@RevYinkaAdeleke @tvanigeria Even angel was involved!

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@love_Victoria17 Exactly

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Faith
Patience
✍️✍️✍️
Jot these fings down
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@Luciaaaa_Ok 🤣
Seems they are oh

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@codonye @codonye can you DM it me pls 🙏🏾

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[Ifeoluwa Ijaopo @Ijaoplenty]

To you it’s Love, it’s one of the best places you want to be.
To them it’s a situation, a happenstance.

You go explain tire! Ko si evidence. 🫠
However, resist the urge to shalaye.

#reflectionsofAroHa

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

Your mentors have women they simp for too!
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Still had this conversation with my brother this weekend!

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

When I see guys (younger ones) who brag and beat their chest that they won't simp for any woman in their lives, I laugh because it's always really cute. Look at you, so adorable and tough.

If you're one of them, I want to share with you these unavoidable truths:

When you meet a woman you love and she ticks at least 70-80% of your boxes, you will simp for her and you'll enjoy it--regardless of how much Never-simp drips you've pumped into your veins.

She will have your mumu button and will press it whenever she wants. You'd fight back occasionally, but she'd win the majority of the head-to-head battles especially in the home.

Her phone will malfunction (or she cracks the screen) and you'll repair or buy a new one before she asks.

She'd drive your car into a ditch and she'd call you to come and pick it up--you won't have no choice.

You'll simp and you'll enjoy it because that woman will be worth it. And that's because you know for sure what they are giving back to you (their sacrifice, peace, stability, grace and growth) makes your simping glorious. You'll say it to everyone around you that you simp for a living.

My point is: Loosen up a bit, and don't OD on the Never-simp narratives. Your mentors have women they simp for too. Humans are not that bad afterall.

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

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[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

You can deduce from people's tweet that men are dating women they can't trust to commit to them or carry the relationship if life happens to them. You're in a relationship but you are living in fear that if something happens to your finances, you'll lose your woman to another man. So you are desperately working to ensure that never happens as if you control the universe.

You know this and you're still with her and will still marry her. Many of you opened eyes to marry nonsense. The peace you don't have now, you'll never have it.

Tomorrow, you'll say you're a victim instead of admitting you were just a fool. We accept the love we think we think we deserve.

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

Interesting 🧐🫠

[SportsDokita (Odogwu ☝️) @Sports_Doctor2]

There you have it.
If you've picked up something new, retweet for others, comment in the comment section, and for more content like this, hit the follow button.

It's a good day to enjoy a healthy banter, Do have a lovely day, guys.

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@Abi_odun @Sports_Doctor2 Even though, even though 🙄

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Apt!

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

Japa curse: I miss my friends.

Last night as I writhed in ear pains, I decided to distract myself with positive thoughts, then I asked myself how big a party we would throw if me and madam decided to have another baby.

I tried to make a list of my friends and how each of them would turn up to slay with their families on the day (as band of brothers that we are). Then it occured to me that roughly 80% of my best friends have already left Nigeria or have plans to leave by September.

That moment, the realization dawned on me: I suddenly realized that I was half-naked, quality-friends wise, and that I needed to be open to making new friends among a list of people I was not familiar with their humble beginnings and stories.

I don't intend to relocate, at least not in the near future but I respect people who see it as a fresh start and an escape from the torments of this country. I'm also very much aware that once people relocate they are starting new lives and prior existing relationships will never be the same again. (time difference, pressure etc).

However, I can't help but wonder: how is it possible that, despite the fact that we are not actively at war, I've lost nearly 80% of my best friends—a list I carefully and meritoriously compiled over a period spanning more than 15 years—to the nefarious hands of immigration, sparked and catalysed solely by wicked and greedy SOBs that we have as leaders and their stupid policies?

Our political ruling class mismanaged our resources and the potential of our brilliant/talented younger population to the point that everything is now unstable, including human relationships. The past is depressing, the present is miserable and the future is bleak.

I appreciate having true friends. I occasionally sit with them, rubbing off on them as they do the same for me. For that reason, I have to make new friends once more, hoping (not that it's a curse) that they are not already in the final stages of their relocation plans and as well praying that they are genuinely beautiful people. This kept me awake for most of the night...

Nigeria, please work in my lifetime. Please.

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[Tspices Kitchen @Tspiceskitchen]

I left church in 2014, cause I wanted to experience full freedom!

Streets showed me shege & I ran back in 2018, 😭

There’s nothing out there ya’all😕just emptiness & vanity!

Life in God is truly a life of PEACE!

there’s no flex in staying away from church, If you love him.

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

Find a squad and stick with it.
Support is key 🔑
#reflectionsofAroHa

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Word for the day!

[Spiricoco Twittter @SpiricocoNg]

We want to say something about prayers that may make many people hit back at us, but we will say it regardless:

3min/5min prayers will do absolutely nothing for you as a believer seeking to grow in power and knowledge of God.

Living by such prayers isn't biblical. See this:

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@TheOluwabukunmi 📌

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Check on your seemingly happy friends

[Oṣóyínká 🪔 @sledge_baba]

My shocking, yet revealing moment so far this year was when a female friend sent me a picture of her nails in February with “Check out my beautiful nails😌” as Caption.

Yeah, she just had her nails done but the nails wasn’t the only thing I saw in the picture.

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

You see that learning, unlearning to relearning growth process that we think is a cliche is everything!
The thing wey I just dey relearn menu Ojo meta yii
Chai but vanity sweet sha
😹😹😹😂😂
#reflectionsofAroHa

[Aroha'Space @ArohaSpace]

His Mercies never come to end 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[Ifeoluwa Ijaopo @Ijaoplenty]

I woke up this morning feeling very funny about life.
I was grateful for it but I needed clarity in my head space. I needed to make HARD DECISIONS.
During the day I received a rush-like feeling that depicted forgiveness and another chance.
His Steadfast Love never ceaseth.
❤️‍🔥

[Ifeoluwa Ijaopo @Ijaoplenty]

I miss my friend tonight,I miss his distinct voice.I am afraid of reading our last chats.
In all these,men go through a lot too.
His first marriage, no child, it ended. He liked another woman,he impregnated her.
He ended his life before story got out.

#reflectionsofAroHa