Anthony Ashaba

Civil Engineer|GMUIPE

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@ekirejufc @KihotsLeague23 Thank you my ekireju family

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@AndrewBolis YT

[Africa Today Media Group @africatodayMG]

Testimony from a South African man.

My wife took my phone and deleted my girlfriend Naomi’s number and saved her own number as Naomi.

I didn’t know someone had already told my wife about Naomi. Then I got an SMS from “Naomi” asking for 2,000 Rand. I rushed to my wife and lied that my brother was sick and needed money urgently.

My wife gave me the money and I quickly sent it to the account in the message.

Later, while resting at home, I wondered if Naomi had received it. I texted again to confirm.

The reply came:
“Call me now.”

I went behind the house and called…

When I heard my wife’s voice instead of Naomi’s, my soul left my body.

It’s been three days.
I’m still standing outside.
I don’t know how to enter my own house.

And this is the brutal lesson men must understand:

Every man who cheats is slowly digging his own grave.

Cheating is not enjoyment.
It is self-destruction.

Physically, a cheating man lives in stress, fear, lies, money loss, disease risk, sleep problems, and constant paranoia. His nervous system never rests. His body is always in danger mode. That pressure ages him, weakens him, and shortens his life.

Spiritually, cheating breaks a man inside. He loses inner authority, attracts chaos, weakens his covering, and opens doors to guilt, confusion, and repeated misfortune. His home loses peace. His children absorb disorder. His prayers lose weight. His destiny loses direction.

A man who lives double will eventually fall double.

No man has ever outcheated consequences.

Every hidden woman takes something:
your peace,
your power,
your respect,
your focus,
your name.

And once a man loses his name, no pleasure can buy it back.

RULES ARE RULES.

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

Interesting narration

[Dr Love Haroun❤️🩺 @Drweloveu]

Dear Women in Marriage,

I wish to share my story as a testimony to all of you walking through this sacred journey called marriage.
My name is Sofia, I am 39 years old, a divorcee after 13 years of marriage, and a mother of three beautiful children, two boys and one girl.

I got married when I was 23 years old. At that time, I was young, inexperienced, and too naïve to fully understand what marriage truly meant. My husband was a good man of caring, home-loving, and responsible. Yet, in my youthful ignorance, I mistook my desire for freedom as strength, not realizing that marriage itself requires maturity, patience, and understanding.

By the age of 31, I already had three children. Life became a routine of motherhood and house management to caring for my husband, tending to the children, and ensuring everything ran smoothly.
Two of my children were already in school, and the youngest was under the care of our nanny. I finally had some freedom to move around, go shopping, and do things on my own.

Then, one ordinary evening while shopping, something happened that changed my entire life.
As I reached for an item, I felt a gentle touch from behind. Turning back, I saw a man smiling warmly at me. He greeted me politely, and we exchanged a few words. He was charming, well-spoken, and carried himself with confidence. When I was done shopping, he insisted on paying my bill and walked me to the car. I felt seen, admired, and appreciated.

Later that evening, I couldn't stop thinking about him. His kindness reminded me of what my marriage had been missing or at least what I thought it was missing. Two days later, he texted me, asking if we could meet for coffee. I agreed. We talked for hours.
He was attentive, understanding, and seemed to say everything a lonely woman longs to hear. By the end of our conversation, he suggested we go somewhere private to continue talking. I didn't resist. We booked a room, and that evening, everything changed.

The intimacy we shared made me feel alive again.
But what I didn't realize was that moment of pleasure would cost me everything I had built for years. When I went back home, I started comparing him to my husband. His words, his touch, even his presence.
Suddenly, my husband felt boring, weak, and unfulfilling. I began to avoid him and withheld intimacy, believing that the man I had met was what I truly needed.

Our affair continued until the man I was seeing asked me to leave my husband so that we could start a new life together. Blinded by emotions and lust, I caused fights at home and finally walked out of my marriage, believing I was walking into happiness.

Today marks three years since I left my home. But I can tell you this from the bottom of my heart — there is nothing special out here to celebrate.
The man I left my husband for turned out to be nothing close to the man I abandoned. After just three months of living together, he began coming home late, avoiding me, and entertaining other women. He even started reminding me that I had children with another man. The same person who once made me feel wanted began to make me feel worthless.

I have suffered greatly for the choice I made that evening in that shopping mall. I lost my home, my husband, my children's respect, and my peace of mind, all for a moment that was never worth it.

Dear women, if you are married, please value your marriage.
Do not be deceived by attention, flattery, or momentary pleasure.
The man who can make you a wife is far better than the one who can only make you a girlfriend.
If you have challenges, work on them. If you feel lonely, talk about it. But never destroy your home because of what looks exciting outside. It fades quickly.

I don't know if my husband will ever forgive me, but I've made peace with God and with myself. My story is not to seek sympathy, but to warn and guide others who may be standing where I once stood.

Learn from me. Protect your marriage. Value your husband. And above all, guard your heart.

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@ekirejufc @KihotsLeague23 @EmpeshanoFc @akatarefc_15 @zwanga_sc13 @2013Ekimeza This season Natal will feel me

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@Naam_kafi_hai Anthony Ashaba

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@MODVA_UPDF Should we assume its a strategy to lock some of us out? What is happening to your system?

[Kyasha FC @KfcKyasha]

As we head for break, stay safe, we shall be back bigger and better 💪🏼💪🏼
#TheMayor
#TheTownboys

[Kyasha FC @KfcKyasha]

Wishing proud and powerful labour day to all hardworking heroes

[Kyasha FC @KfcKyasha]

Tell him we shall offer him 700k each game week,guys shana league tugibarekyere 😂😂😂

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

New season, new vibes

[Kyasha FC @KfcKyasha]

Just like never before, the town boys are back with passion and great vibe. @KitungaLeague isn’t ready for what’s coming 🔥🔥🔥
#Wearethetownboys
#Kyashaneyatwena

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Isaac Mutenyo @imutenyo]

Kudos to ministry of lands @ministry of lands and the ⁦@Usmid_AF⁩ team

[Hajji Arthur🤍 @ArthurHaile1]

This can’t be my country for sure😭😂

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

Thanks @imutenyo for your selflessness service for our motherland Uganda.

[Ministry of Works & Transport @MoWT_Uganda]

375 Engineers were registered between 2022-2024 under the 19th Engineers Registration Board which was Chaired by Eng. Dr. Isaac Mutenyo- @imutenyo. This was the highest number since the Board was established in 1970.

The board also saw expansion of the Secretariat, revamping and acquisition of permanent office space, and preparation of Engineering Professionals Bill-2024.

@ERBUganda

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

@Andrew_truth_ Carpentery is better coz it's a life skill among the three. Football and content creation have a component of age as a limitations. Thanks

[St. Francis Hospital Nsambya @NsambyaHospital]

Earlier On @lionsclubs (Lions Club of Nsambya Kampala) handed over a new eye clinic center to the management and board of #NsambyaHospital.

The center is bound to make a meaningful difference in the lives of many patients seeking eye care services.

[Anthony Ashaba @Ashaanthony3]

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