Some people make you feel safe enough to let your guard down. You never have to overthink your words, question your worth, or worry about being too much.
You simply get to be yourself and leave feeling lighter.
And I think that’s one of the greatest gifts anyone can give you….the freedom to belong without having to earn it.
We live in a generation where people think ignoring messages and refusing to reply makes them look cooler or more important. Honestly, it doesn’t. A simple reply costs nothing. Life is too short to make basic communication feel like a privilege. Respect people’s time and understand that communication matters. ❤️
Men hardly end marriages. It's always women who find it very easy to break or scatter relationships and marriage.
There are always statistics to back up these claims. The reason why women finds it very easy and lucrative to break up, divorce or end relationships, and marriage is simply because they don't invest much on those enterprise, rather they are the highest beneficiaries of those enterprises.
Men can endure and tolerate a women shenanigans and still try to make things work. Even if it's not favoring them. Men can stay in such hostile environment, believing and hoping that things could change for better.
But women don't have such patience at all. The moments in which any relationships and marriage fail to favor women to their own satisfaction, the next thing they think about is how to end the relationship and look for another man.
Most times this their attitude comes from the knowing that they don't have anything much to lose since they never even invested in the relationship at all, and again, they tends to break it easily when they know that they have benefited more than they have lost.
It's always the man who suffers the loss more than the women. He yields the highest responsibilities in marriage and relationship. He does the most. Most times those women are just there adding nothing but sex that the man can get cheaply from other women out there.
It's what it is.
Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love, with or without money. You were born alone, you'll die alone. People will replace you and forget about you. Live accordingly.
Speak little of what you intend or plan to do. Your moves should stay between you and you. For even a friend or family can be an ear to the enemy. Every wondered why every plan you share with that friend you actually trust never come to fruition even when you actually had so much hope for them to happen ??
Be careful how you treat people when you no longer need them. Life has a funny way of changing seating arrangements. The person you repay with evil today may be the very blessing you beg God for tomorrow.
Life doesn't care how many times you were rejected. Pain deserves compassion, but your next move still matters. Dry your eyes, update that CV, and knock again.
I thought I had seen it all until one day when I entered my friend’s hostel room and found our tough female lecturer washing his clothes.
She even served us food while kneeling🤣🤣🤣
We had fun at papa were University 🙌