@LfcNuel I think it's hightime our club lawyers start issuing referees to the Court of Arbitration so they can account singke hadedly wth't the @PGMOL_FA bcz there awfulness is affecting teamz, rem for instance @WestHam last season denied that late equalizer vs @Arsenal hence beong relgtd
@ConnCFC Jhs kno ua fanning the only tema to hae won it all so jhs kno we set our standards so high that we need only quality ad wth such owners we shall be somewhere better in dat table one day
Ya Allah, forgive every sin that has become a barrier between us and Your mercy.
Ya Allah, answer the duสฟฤs we have been making for years and grant us what is best at the perfect time.
Ya Allah, grant us hearts that remain firm upon Islam until our final breath. Aamiin ya rabb ๐คฒ.
โPlay with them for the first seven years (of their life); then teach them for the next seven years; then advise them for the next seven years (and after that)." Ali ibn Abi Taalib ุฑูุถููู ุงูููู ุนููููู
*First Seven Years
In the first seven years, your goal is to build a strong connection to your child. This is the foundation, the base from which your relationship with them grows. If this is rock solid, the remaining years will be much easier. If this foundation forms poorly, the next years will be more challenging. If you have young children, this (first seven years) is the time to roll up your sleeves and invest, heavily, in your and their future.
*Next Seven Years
This is the time to teach them everything โ aqeedah, halaal and haraam, fiqh, all the things they need to know to survive throughout their life. Qurโan and seerah are also very important. This is the time they are sponges, ready to soak up anything and everything you tell them, teach them, show them, and do in front of them. If you built that solid foundation in ages 0-7, they are now more than willing and happy to learn from you.
Teach them sports, too; Rasulullah ๏ทบ said: โTeach your children swimming, archery and horseback riding.โ They gain many benefits from it, including physical fitness, learning teamwork, and sportsmanship.
*The Final Seven Years
Once your children hit 14, they are probably already mukallaf (full adults Islamically, and accountable for their actions) โ this happens at puberty, or at age 15 at the latest.
At this age, you are mostly out of the picture. Children achieve independence; their personalities manifest; they look more to their peers than their parents and families. During these critical years, befriend them, advise them, and do what you can; understand that they are now full adults, and the choices are theirs to make, right or wrong.
If you worked hard during the last two periods of seven years, you will already be that trusted confidant, that advisor, that go-to person when they need help or advice. Be part of their lives, and advise them as best you can."
One of the many reasons I left NRM was the whole idea that you're not allowed to think for yourself. I would often make posts criticizing government dysfunction and corruption, and then my inbox would be flooded with messages asking why Iโm fighting the government!
If for instance there was a corruption scandal involving some NRM bigwig and the opposition was up in arms against that person, you were expected to defend that person no matter how much loss or damage the person had caused.
Surprisingly, once Gen. Museveni ordered for the investigation of that person or took some action against them, you were expected to immediately shift goalposts and condemn him or her. If you continued defending that person after Museveni had spoken, you would be branded a traitor - ekipinga. Likewise, if you went to public hospitals and talked about the terrible conditions there, you were branded opposition. If Gen. Museveni came out and said the same thing, they would clap hands and nod in approval. So I asked, "What is my head for if I am not expected to make a judgment call on what is wrong or right?"
Sadly, that behavior has persisted up to now or even gotten worse. You all saw how NRM apologists were on these streets defending Anita Among despite all the evidence of grand corruption. But when the system turned on her, they joined the chorus of those condemning her. Seamlessly. Shamelessly!
I shuddered yesterday when I saw the number of apologists defending the shootings in Kisekka market. I'm sure if Museveni issues a statement today condemning that behavior, you will see how they instantly pivot and join in the condemnation. Suddenly, they will be "deeply disgusted" by these unpatriotic actions that harm peace, security, and tourism.
So, what is the purpose of having a brain if you canโt use it to think for yourself and discern what is right or wrong?