No-one should try to kill me or even fight me over man. If we're dealing with the same man just let me know and I'll release him to you. No man is worth even a scratch on my face
Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play
i detach very fast. Anything i love extremely deeply I'm prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot..l'll cut my finger off to save my hand. I can’t lose myself again, for anything. I'Il heal.
Nobody really talks about this, but once you start healing past trauma and your body comes out of “fight or flight” mode, your body will crave a lot of rest and silence. Your body finally starts to feel safe in the peace, quiet and calm. You aren't lazy. Your body is just catching up on all the years it didn't have this stillness. You deserve this.
Truth is too many people are looking for saviors and too many people have the “savior’s complex” and they don’t even know that’s not a healthy dynamics for a relationship. Find yourself, heal yourself and don’t burden someone who wants to love with that responsibility