There’s a weird kind of career burnout where you don’t hate your job enough to quit, but you know you’ve outgrown it enough to feel miserable staying. Then you look at the job market and think, “Actually, maybe I’ll just suffer here a little longer.”
@SangKip4 Once long ni wacha kiherehere,
Two slow ones is ingia nimekuwachia,
Three mid pace nipee niingie priss,
Multiple fast ones ni utakufa vibaya wewe 🫴🏿.
Every day, I’m reminded how inhumane some of you are becoming toward women. Instead of outrage, there’s excitement in weaponizing this saga to shame women. All the facts about how disgusting this man’s actions are get ignored, just so women can be dragged.
That Russian man was secretly filming those women without their knowledge. None of them anticipated that the glasses he was wearing were fitted with hidden cameras.Generic glasses embedded with video and audio recording tech.Only one woman I’ve seen questioned him and asked him to remove the glasses and that’s exactly where his video abruptly ended.
Guys.
A foreigner travels to African countries, engages in consensual sex with women, secretly records them, and then publishes the videos online.
The sex was consensual.
The recording and distribution were not.
That is sexual exploitation.
What’s troubling is that instead of focusing on the violation, many are laughing at the women.
Now, before the familiar “why did they go there?” question comes up, let’s separate the issues.
Adults make personal choices every day. Some wise, some risky.
But no such personal decision cancels the right to privacy, and grants one permission to secretly record and expose someone.
We can debate ethics, morality and safety.
But those debates must not erase the principle of consent.
Consent to sex is not consent to filming.
Consent to filming is not consent to publication.
If we blur that line, we normalise exploitation.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.