you have to believe me when i tell you that going out and experiencing life is really the best medicine for improving your art and writing and restoring your passion
I used to be a people pleaser and then I realized I never got anything I actually wanted and that my relationships were based on mutual unspoken resentment. So I pivoted to a life of asking for what I want and being seen as an often disagreeable and difficult woman. Much better
i actually believe some people gravitate toward you bc they see how everyone else gravitates toward you and they’re either plotting or hoping some of that swag transfers over but they don’t really like u or feel a natural gravitation like everyone else so they’re annoyed by you
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you're a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let mfers know you can go from 0-100 real quick.
i have a friend who treats me so well that she doesn’t even know that she’s established a standard for how i let everyone else treat me, and i think that’s beautiful