a good man doesn’t just give you a ring or a house. He gives you your nervous system back. He gives you the ability to exhale. He gives you the safety to finally put down the armor you’ve been wearing your whole life.
You have to fall in love with her in different versions. The young her, the tired her, the pregnant her, the ambitious her, the difficult her, the woman she becomes with time. That’s the real secret.
Especially when you’re a good person. They love how it feels to be genuinely valued by you until receiving your energy requires responsibility and accountability.
I love the feeling of getting back on track with life 🤍 Cutting out bad habits, elevating, staying focused, & putting my energy into what truly matters!!! There’s nothing like choosing yourself and getting back to you!
there’s something about gentle dominance that has nothing to do with being controlling. it’s the “give me that, i’ll carry it.” “come here.” “you’re eating first.” “stay close to me.” “don’t worry, i’ve got it.” knowing when to take the lead, make the decision, and quietly take care of you… that kind of attention feels so intimate. sometimes being gently bossed around by someone you trust is literally a love language.
Oh absolutely! They’re out there, they’re also very smart, faithful, attentive, loyal, loving, giving, providing, protective, etc. don’t fall for what you see on social media. There are genuinely amazing men out there, my dad is one, my man is one, & my oldest brother is one.