Debra J. Totton

I am passionate about helping families and individuals find help and hope through stronger relationships.

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@space0377 Yes

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@elonmusknews30 👍🏼

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@musk_news13 👍🏼 yes please with a fantastic camera.

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@IvankaNews_ 👍🏼

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@BartemyS @JustineBateman And those of us who are old school and challenge this thinking and behavior are threatened, doxxed, and fear our licenses will be at risk. We are retiring in droves.

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@_ajtsanchez I’m sorry you are being treated poorly by others.

[Elon Musk @elonmusk]

Wow

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@SoadTabrizi So many questions. What is the parenting strategy? How many toys do 2 children need? Before changing interests put things away, it teaches responsibility, focus and disciplines the mind.

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@SoadTabrizi You are so not either of those things. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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@sometherapist Disgusting

[Lori Lite @StressFreeKids]

Teach Children That They Are Good Enough. #mentalhealth #teaching

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@CindyPinTrev @JebraFaushay Partial wheelchair user. Many of us need to use grab bars and the higher toilet. Using the lower toilets means we crawl off the toilet onto the floor and hope we get up. Disabled toilets are for wheelchair users, walker users, walking assisted.

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Sunday funday! What does the father buffalo say to his son leaving for college? Bi-son! #dadjokes #FatherDay

[TaraBull @TaraBull]

By: This Blew My Mind
“When pregnant, the cells of the baby migrate into the mothers bloodstream and then circle back into the baby, it’s called “fetal-maternal microchimerism”.⁠

For 41 weeks, the cells circulate and merge backwards and forwards, and after the baby is born, many of these cells stay in the mother’s body, leaving a permanent imprint in the mothers tissues, bones, brain, and skin, and often stay there for decades. Every single child a mother has afterwards will leave a similar imprint on her body, too.

Even if a pregnancy doesn't go to full term or if you have an abortion, these cells still migrate into your bloodstream.

Research has shown that if a mother's heart is injured, fetal cells will rush to the site of the injury and change into different types of cells that specialize in mending the heart.
The baby helps repair the mother, while the mother builds the baby.

How cool is that?
This is often why certain illnesses vanish while pregnant.

It’s incredible how mothers bodies protect the baby at all costs, and the baby protects & rebuilds the mother back - so that the baby can develop safely and survive.

Think about crazy cravings for a moment. What was the mother deficient in that the baby made them crave?

Studies have also shown cells from a fetus in a mothers brain 18 years after she gave birth. How amazing is that?”

If you’re a mom you know how you can intuitively feel your child even when they are not there….Well, now there is scientific proof that moms carry them for years and years even after they have given birth to them.
I find this to be so very beautiful.

[Debra J. Totton @AskDebbie]

We find peace when we focus on things we can control #peace #mentalhealth

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Make every day your best day of the year.

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“Compassion is an unstable emotion. It needs to be translated into action, or it withers.” Susan Sontag

[ChatterBoxMuse ❂ @ChatterBox_Muse]

Everyone. I mean EVERYONE needs to hear this.

[Lori Lite @StressFreeKids]

Don’t Tell Kids To Calm Down, Show Them How ♡