Jealousy is challenging to feel. "I should trust my partner; I should be more confident. Even I don’t know what to do with my insecurity - it makes me feel ashamed." George suggests that jealousy is data from the body and we can get reassurance. (listen: https://t.co/wFbADsqtZu)
https://t.co/S8TbHYALL0 You like and they don't? Laurie and George talk about it all. They role play a couple who gets stuck in retaliation - if you don’t go down on me; I won’t go down on you.
https://t.co/2jNykHvMkt Libido is shared between the couple. The pursuer afraid of being rejected, almost starts every initiation with an edge of criticism. So the sexual moment starts the partner off without even being given much of a chance at feeling desire.
Here's one to SHARE!! https://t.co/E6VT8afuC0 BACK TO THE BASICS, BABY!! Our episode is a clear understanding of how these negative cycles SUCK intimacy from the couple either sexually or emotionally or BOTH. once you see the patter - you can solve all your problems!
“I’m just not attracted to you anymore.” - OUCH!!!I Sounds like a showstopper doesn’t it? But Laurie and George have hope for you to get it back. https://t.co/AFj3GF6DGQ
Change is difficult - we wanna help make it easier. How? We’re talking about good-enough responding - https://t.co/oLs3pWvzxJ responding to our partner in ways that keep us connected even when we disappoint them in order to give our sexual attachment a fighting chance.
Porn, gummies, alcohol, vibrators, handcuffs, etc… and other toys might add to arousal or block connection! https://t.co/mVXw1sugYy What have you fantasized about doing? It takes vulnerability to tell each other about ideas for novelty and change. Are you willing to risk?
https://t.co/jkYXO3uEX0 Is it worth it to accept only what your partner is willing to give you sexually instead of holding out for what you really want? Is something better than nothing?
https://t.co/QXEPlKANgI Would you just love to go for a walk with Laurie? L invites all of her girlfriends, let's talk about hacks to conquer menopause, how to use a vibrator and what to do if his erection fails. Join in for some girl talk!
Lovemaking, maintenance sex, icebreaker sex, the 5-minute window, RED HOT sex, and scheduled sex - all have their merits :) https://t.co/uG18ZyrAfe George and Laurie riff on these six modes of sex - how connected relationships might make use of all of them.
FOREPLAY is honored to welcome Emotionally Focused Therapy, founder and friend - @Dr_SueJohnson to talk with us about my driving and the sexual attachment cycle! https://t.co/NYumEJkv5o Join us to hear the woman who Changed. The. World. with her theory and life's work. g