Mau dengar satu kenyataan yang menyakitkan?
Tapi jangan sampai nangis setelah membacanya.
“Manusia tidak hancur karena cinta, dia hancur karena ketulusannya.”
Karena saat mencintai, seseorang masih bisa menahan diri. Tapi saat sudah tulus, dia memberi tanpa menghitung, tanpa menyisakan sedikit pun untuk dirinya sendiri.
Dia percaya sepenuh hati. Dia menaruh harapan setinggi langit. Dan ketika semuanya runtuh, yang jatuh bukan hanya sebuah hubungan, melainkan juga sebagian dari dirinya. Atau mungkin seluruhnya.
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siapa yang suka bingung jugaa?😭
nih penjelasan dan cara bacanya :
- Thought (thot) : pikiran
- Through (thru) : melalui
- Throughout (thru-out) : sepanjang / di seluruh
- Thorough (thur-oh) : menyeluruh / teliti
- Tough (tuf) : sulit, tangguh
- Taught (tot) : mengajar
- Though (tho) : meskipun / walaupun
Your SPOUSE is the one who'll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who'll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you're ever too sick to stand. this isn't just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it's about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn't enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life's ugly parts... that's what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won't carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it's HARD TO LOVE.
Adab dengan wanita:
Avoid looking at her
Kalau berdua dalam lift, make sure you can be seen by her, duduk kat paling corner far from her
Bila berjalan di belakang dia, cepat2 ke hadapan so that she can see.
Jangan buli wanita
Jangan catcalling dia
Jangan sexual harass dia