Stop chasing people who make you feel unwanted. If they want you in their life, they'll make the effort. You can love someone deeply and still walk away when you're the only one trying. Sometimes, choosing yourself means letting go of someone you still wish would choose you.
After break up gue
Belajar boundaries, attachment, detachment, self worth, dan ternyata ga semua yg gue sayang harus gue pertahanin.
Dulu gue kira move on itu soal melupain seseorang.
Ternyata lebih ke belajar balik jadi diri sendiri.
menurutku salah satunya ketika hubungan udh ga terasa emotionally safe lagi. bukan berarti harus selalu sepakat atau ga pernah berantem tp ketika kamu mulai takut buat jujur, takut menyampaikan sesuatu yg mengganggu kamu karena khawatir reaksinya atau malah merasa lebih tenang ketika ga cerita apa apa ke pasangan sendiri.
terus kalau setiap ada masalah yg terjadi cuma defensiveness, saling menyalahkan atau janji berubah tanpa actual effort, lama lama trust bisa terkikis juga. sometimes relationships dont end because of one big betrayal but because of a hundred little moments where someone stops feeling heard, understood or safe.
it is… for me, i can value, respect, and love someone deeply one day, and then immediately walk away (with closure) the next day. treat them like they never existed in my life before.
forever a leaver when it comes to disrespect!! detachnya jg dengan proses yg setenang mungkin.
To give your heart without measuring what comes back. To hold someone like you have no plan to leave. To love her gently, privately, sincerely, like love was never meant to be scary.
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