I think I must have said this before.
1. Do not build in the same compound with your brother. If you must, make sure that there is a clear demarcation by fencing yours.
2. Do not contribute money together with your brother to build a house. Build yours and let him build his.
3. Do not abandon your own house project to renovate a family house, unless you have enough money to do so, or you are the first son.
4. Once you marry a wife, every property you acquire should be known to your wife. Do not say that you want to hide things from your wife while trusting your brother with all the details.
5. As long as you know that your wife is a good wife to you, tell her that if you suddenly die, she should immediately take all your important documents out of the house to a safe place. If you have more than one car before your demise, ask her to sell any cars that are no longer needed and keep the money for herself and your children.
6. If you're going to do any business with your brother, do so on clear legal and agreed terms. Treat him like a business partner, not like a blood brother.
If you doubt any of these things that I have said, screenshot it and send to your father.
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Ease his affairs, take care of all his needs, and place barakah in everything he has. Guide him, protect him from all harm and evil, and always be with him.
Ameen Ya Hayyu Ya Quyyuumu.
Ya Allah, to my Husband who has been a source of blessing to me in this month of Ramadan, please answer all his dua, bless him abundantly. Enrich him, grant him goodness, and provide for him in ways beyond his expectations.
Ya Allah, to everyone who has been a source of blessing to me in this month of Ramadan, please bless them abundantly. Enrich them, grant them goodness, and provide for them in ways beyond their expectations.
Ease their affairs, take care of all their needs, and place barakah in everything they have. Guide them, protect them from all harm and evil, and always be with them.
Ameen.
a friend shared this Dua to me for Laylatul Qadr and i also want to share with y’all
Ya Allah... I come to You tonight with a heart that is not perfect, with a record that is not clean, with a soul that has wandered too many times. I have disappointed You more than I can count yet you still allow me to reach this night
Do not let me leave it the same. Wash me completely not just from sin, but from the love of sin.
Ya Allah... there are parts of me I don't show anyone. The doubts. The insecurities. The fears about my future. The guilt about my past. You see it all. If I am breaking inside, mend me. If I am lost, guide me. If I am weak, strengthen me. I have no refuge except You.
Ya Allah... if I have grown distant from You, pull me back gently. If my heart has hardened, soften it with Your remembrance. If I have chosen dunya over You too many times, forgive me and realign my priorities. Do not let this world become bigger in my heart than my akhirah.
Ya Allah... forgive me for every prayer I rushed, every blessing I took for granted, every sin I justified, every moment I chose disobedience over gratitude. I am ashamed of my shortcomings, but I am hopeful in Your mercy. You are greater than my worst mistakes.
Ya Allah... if You know that my heart will not survive another year in the same state, then transform me tonight.
Remove from me what is pulling me away from You even if it hurts. Replace it with what will bring me closer to Jannah.
Ya Allah... grant my parents forgiveness that reaches the heavens, health that eases their bodies, and light that fills their graves when they return to You. Make me a source of ongoing reward for them, not a source of regret.
Ya Allah... protect me from a death that comes suddenly while I am heedless. Let my final moments be filled with remembrance, with sincerity, with Your pleasure. Let my last breath carry Your name.
Ya Allah... if tonight is Laylatul Qadr, then write me among those forgiven. Among those freed from the Fire. Among those whose destinies were changed because they cried to You sincerely. Let angels witness my tears and carry my du'as to the heavens.
Ya Allah... I am asking You for Jannah. Not because I deserve it, but because You are Al-Kareem. Save me from the Hellfire, even if my deeds are small. Let Your mercy be greater than my failures.
Ya Allah… when this night ends let me wake up as someone different. Cleaner. Softer. Closer to You. Do not let this be just another Ramadan night I wasted. Let it be the night that changed my eternity.
Ya Allah… if this is the night You descend with mercy, then do not pass me by. Do not let my name be written among the heedless. I am standing at Your door with nothing but hope.
My deeds are small. My sins are many. But my trust in You is greater than all of it. If You forgive me tonight, no one can question it. If You accept me tonight, no one can reject me.
So Ya Allah... look at me with mercy. Look at me with forgiveness. Look at me as a servant who is desperate for You and do not let me leave this night empty.
Ya Allah,
Some of us are smiling outside but tired inside, Fix the part of us we don't talk about. Heal the wounds we covered with I'm fine. Correct the wrong in our hearts and in our body .
Make is a better Muslim in private, not just online
Allahumo Aamin
Some women are praying for two lines,constantly crying quietly after sujood,while some are rocking babies to sleep.
To d woman making dua for a child this Ramadan,Ya Rabb,grant them a righteous child that will be the coolness of their eyes,
To those that have, guide them for us🤲🏽
Ya Allah, I am uneasy. Ya Malik, I am lost and confused. Ya Ghaffar, forgive my sins. Ya Jabbar, help put back the heart you didn't break. Ya Karim, bless me with an abundance of health, wealth, love, and success. Ya Razzaq, provide for me through means I didn't know existed. Ya Fattah, open the doors that have shut on me. Ya Mujib, You answer all duas, 1, your servant is in dire need of Your help. Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir.
Verily my death is closer today than it was yesterday, and the day before, and the day before that.
Allahumma inni as’aluka Taubatan qablal maut. Wa indal maut Shahada. Wa ba’adal maut Jannatan wa Hariran.
Ameen
Allah didn’t remove the sea for Musa.
He parted it.
Allah didn’t extinguish the fire for Ibrahim.
He made it cool.
Allah didn’t directly heal Ayyub.
He guided him to the water.
Allah didn’t place dates in Maryam’s hands.
He instructed her to shake the tree.
Allah doesn’t always take away our hardships, but He provides a path through them.
So when we seek relief, don’t be surprised if it comes with challenges to overcome.
Try as much as you can to repost or share any beneficial Islamic posts you come across. The message reached you for a reason & it will be recorded as a reoccurring good deed for you for anyone it reaches through you. May Allah bless us all and purify our intentions....
Fraud is not hustle.
Manipulating others to make illicit Money is not hustle.
Dupe people for their swear Money to ball is not hustle.
No matter how you sugar-coat it You're a big THIEF!
Provide for your wife & kids.
That's what God called you to do.
The woke society is telling you that a woman must also work.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with that.
But your wife's money is not your money.
It's your kids' money.
But your entitled self won't understand.
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It's sunnah
1. Thank you:- Jazakallahu Khairan
2. Forgot:- Astagfirullah
3. Amazing:- Ma Shaa Allah
4. Sad:- La Tahzan Inallaha Ma'ana
5. Not confident:- La hawla wa laa quwwata illa billah
6. Insecure:- Hasbunallah waniamal wakeel
7. Unexpected incident:- Qadarullahi wa ma shaa fa'al
8. Be careful:- Fi Amanillah
9. Okay:- In Sha Allah
10. If you feel jealous:- Wama Indallahi Khair
11. Get well soon:- Shifakum Allah
12. Always considered wrong:- Wakafa Billahi Shahida
Spread the knowledge ❤️
1) You'll wake in the morning, & someone greets good morning, sweetie.
2) Your bath water is ready for you.
3) You come out of the bathroom, & your boxers and singlet are waiting for you.
4) You are about to leave for work, & your lunch box is packed for you.
5) You'll travel for days, weeks or months, & you are at peace because you know that your lovely kids are in safe hands.
6) You come back home, tired from work or travel, & you're welcomed to a clean house, with your favorite meal ready for you, & your kids jumping up and down because daddy is back.
7) You go out to cheat & fuck all sorts of women, but anytime you need sex in your home, she's always ready.
8) You're temporarily broke, and she's there to support you, & step in for you until you bounce back.
9) You're answering Mr. Onwuka, and she is answering Mrs. Onwuka, and all your kids are answering Onwuka.
10) You have visitors, and she prepares them sweat meals and makes the home comfortable for them throughout their stay.
14) You return from work and throw your boxers and socks on the floor and someone is there to pick them up, & wash them.
15) No key decision is made without your final input or consent, & whatever you say would be abode to, without questions.
16) She cannot go out to anywhere without your permission, neither can your kids. But you can without recourse to anyone. You just need to inform them if you wish.
17) You're the only one that has the ultimate right & authority to decide if your children will marry their chosen spouses or not.
18) The society sees you as a responsible man, & accords you certain rights and respect.
19) You'll live longer because someone is checking your diet & giving you peace of mind & good fucks.
20) You'll always obtain favour from God because you have found your wife.
These are a few benefits of marriage to a man.
If you think that you can enjoy all these and more as a single man for many years, you're dreaming.
Wake up.
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WHAT WAS OUR PROPHET صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ LIKE?
• He was the mildest of people and also the warmest and most generous of them.
• He would fix his own sandals, patch his own clothes and help his family with the daily errands.
• He was very shy; shyer than a virgin in her chamber.
• He would respond to the invitation of slaves.
• He would visit the sick.
• He would walk alone [without guards].
• He would allow others to saddle-up with him on his mount.
• He would accept gifts.
• He would eat food that was sent as a gift; but he never consumed anything that had been given as charity.
• He did not have enough dates with which to be satisfied, nor was he satisfied with barley-bread for more than three consecutive days.
• He would eat whatever food was readily available.
• He never criticized food.
• He never ate lying down, and ate whatever was closest to him.
• He loved perfumes and disliked foul odors.
• He honored people of virtue, and kept affectionate ties with nobles and dignitaries.
• He never rejected anyone and would accept the excuse of those who presented excuses.
• He would joke, but never would he utter anything untrue.
• He laughed, but not loudly.
• He would not let any time pass without being in the service of God or being engaged in whatever was essential for his own self-development.
• He never cursed women, nor abused servants.
• He never hit anyone, except for in jihad in God’s cause.
• He did not perform revenge for his own sake, but did so when God’s limits had been transgressed.
• If he was presented with two options he took the easier of the two, unless it entailed disobedience or the severing of ties – in which case he would be the furthest away from it.
• He would sit in an assembly wherever it was convenient and would mingle among his Companions as one of them, so much so that when strangers came, they couldn’t tell him from others, except after inquiring as to who he was.
• He would take to long periods of silence, but when he did speak he did so slowly and clearly, repeating himself so that he would be understood.
• He used to pardon, even when he was in a position to punish.
• He wouldn’t confront anyone with what they did not like.
• He was the most truthful of men.
• He was the one who most fulfilled his trusts, pledges and commitments.
• He was the easiest going of people; the most affable; and the most generous in friendship.
• Whoever looked at him unexpectedly, was amazed by him.
• Whoever knew him, loved him.
• His Companions, whenever they spoke about worldly affairs, he would join in with them; and when, in recollecting their pre-Islamic days, they would laughed, he would simply smile.
• He was also the bravest of men.
One of his Companions recounts: When the fighting grew intense, we would seek shelter behind God’s Messenger.
Source: Summary of Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasideen by Imam Ibn Qudamah (pp. 157-158)
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