Fools argue to validate emotion. It's unproductive. The wise discuss difficult topics for the purpose of growth & development. Arguing for the purpose of feeling right is counterproductive.
Stop looking for the perfect mate.
He/she doesn’t exist.
Everybody is flawed in some capacity.
Instead, start looking for someone who possesses:
Honesty, Vision, Initiative, the ability to communicate, great work ethic, faithfulness, & the willingness to be accountable.
All the positive states of mind such as love, compassion, insight and so on, have the quality that you can enhance their capacity and increase their potential to a limitless degree, if you regularly practice them through training and by developing constant familiarity with them.
I had a full scholarship to undergrad. I have a merit scholarship to grad school and lots of connects and my own successfully fully-funded agency. I am the wave. #Affirmation
If someone is attached to a vision that's bringing them more pain than growth, the individual has to decide themselves what they value more, the vision or the growth. Often times ppl outgrow their vision and get stuck.
I'm the type that will put you on notice about things but I'm not going to tell anyone what they should or shouldn't do. I try to stick with facts and personal experience.
Allow people to make poor decisions and also allow them to feel the consequences of their poor decisions. Then support them through the recovery process without being judgmental. It's called tough love.
People with a low sense of self-awareness tend to project their own shortcomings and feelings onto others. This behavior exposes their insecurities. Listen. Be patient & guide them to self-discovery.
Senate Bill 14 would address @MeekMill's case and many other similar matters by capping the length of probation at five years for felonies and three for misdemeanors. https://t.co/V002oU7k4q