I wouldn’t trust someone who has a lot of pride. They’ll sacrifice anything for the sake of upholding the image they have of themselves in their head, which means anything real in connection with them is bound to dissolve eventually, the foundation is faulty.
a lot of people needed you in a headspace where you weren't as focused on yourself, where you weren't fully present or able to show up at your best because as long as you were in that headspace, you weren't going to be able to take flight and surpass them, a lot of people were in secret competition with you and that's why they naturally drifted out of your life, the year of the snake really showed you who was a friend and who was a foe, in the year of the fire horse and in this one year, it's all about you, let them go, so that you can move up in your purpose, stay the course.
Respectfully, I don't go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
Maturity is accepting that sometimes your love might not be what they need right now & that’s ok. Sometimes, when someone pulls away, we think it’s bc we’re not good enough, but it’s rarely about us. It’s about timing, readiness, or even their own insecurities.