Bunch of fucking sissies in this thread. I'm not taking care of a Down syndrome baby that'll never grow up to be independent. The stress and money needed are not worth the effort. I can always start again, make a new line...
None of you are self-aware. You are howling narcissists. This woman starts this video off by listing her personality type, attachment style, horoscope, as if borrowed categories add up to a self. You think about yourselves too much and have mistaken it for introspection.
I don't like a contrarian. People who habitually choose to go against popular opinion for no other reason than to be edgy or different.
That being said, I am in sincere disagreement with the take that this person did something terrible.
Based on what we know from the original post, this guy didn't behave badly to her while servicing her car. Didn't make her uncomfortable, wasn't hitting on her. That would have been inappropriate, as she was a captive audience.
The big issue people have is that he saved her phone number from a professional encounter and texted her. He could've looked her up on social media. He could've done some research and pretended to run into her by accident. He could have done a lot of actual creepy things guys do to score. Instead, he texted her, told her who he was, apologised if it was overstepping, gave her the easiest out ever, to just not respond.
Let's be honest, if there had been a mutual spark, she likely would've been excited that he texted her. But since there wasn't, he should be labeled a vile creep who needs to be fired immediately.
It's nonsense.