Anyone else stuck in this weird cycle where work is so exhausting that your hobbies feel like too much work, so you don’t do them, and then you go back to work upset that you didn’t take time to do the things you enjoy?
No one wants to admit to this but sometimes it is your fault. Your life isn’t going the way you want and it’s your fault. You’ve made some bad decisions or choices and sadly these are the repercussions of your own actions.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you'll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It's very important that you see that journey through.
Used to get mad when mom posted the ugliest pics of me, but now that I'm older, l realized that she was always choosing the ones I looked the happiest in.
As a man, never neglect your mental health. Get that haircut. Hit the gym. Hang with the boys. Watch that game. Play that video game. Take that road trip. Spend time in nature. Get some sleep. Don't get so lost in the grind that you forget to live.
You gotta maintain a lightness to your heart because turning into a bitter loser obsessed with how people have done you wrong is the most off-putting and unrewarding way a person can choose to be
Also pray for the ability to see your own faults, your own sins, your own hypocrisy, & ur own shortcomings. You should never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, fall short.
this old lady once said “If you don't spend enough time getting to know yourself you'll end up absorbing everyone else's definition off you” felt this.
One of the hardest adult lessons is that you still have to show up, no matter what you're carrying. Do it sad. Do it grieving. Do it exhausted. Life doesn't pause to spare you. It keeps moving, so you keep moving too.