Status, Popularity, Achievement, Control over people(basically becoming Choudary or Nawaab or Babu), Expectation, Impression yada yada... These are all Horseshit. Humans should be treated humbly irrespective of the above-mentioned characteristics.
#Pseudophilosophy
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We have to train our brain for our own betterment otherwise we all know how our brain itself will create problems that are irreplaceable and devastating for our own selves.
Primary solution : Build a system & follow it consistently.
#practicalphilosophy
You can't change anyone and you shouldn't have to if you are trying to then there might be some selfish need of yours to get fulfilled by that person.
Real change happens when a person is self-driven through self-motivation & self-actualization for their own self-betterment.
No human is above you. Humans can be above you in skills, knowledge, performance, talent, creativity, output, etc. Both are very different things. Admiring somebody for their skills and hard work is natural. Believing that somebody is above you in existence is nonsense.
~ TRBE
One aspect of life satisfaction is,
Maintaining good relationships with the people we love & people who are good for us (not because they are attractive but because they have good values and are trustworthy).
~The Rudest book ever
In the process, I observed a simple pattern: people need a set of principles & perspectives to protect them from a lot of unnecessary pain they go through. Codes to live by, essentially.
See things as it is, don't dramatise or put unnecessary emotions.
Good side ଦେଖିଲ ଏବେ REAL side ଦେଖିବ.
ଛୁଆ ଭାବି avoid କରୁଥିଲି, but ନା, aukat ନ ଦେଖେଇଲାଠୁ ମୁଣ୍ଡରେ ଚଡିଯାଉଚ... This is a fair warning.
"Beware the fury of a patient man."
~ John Dryden.