Good morning ๐
My name is Oluwatobiloba. Some people call me Cakesbybuttercup; others, Buttercup but I answer to all of these names๐คญ๐.
I specialise in making very yummy and affordable cakes for all occasion ("I just crave cake" occasion included ๐).
@Olalincoln2@Only1Etubo@IwaRereLoju You haven't taught us anything o. Don't be a university lecturer that leaves his students to figure it out themselves
@Olalincoln2@IwaRereLoju@Only1Etubo No. You've mixed it up. His father said in an interview that he dropped her with his mother's mother (maternal grandma) when he was barely 6months old.
Except I didn't hear him well
@Olalincoln2@Only1Etubo My brother, I expect some level of itiju from them. If while the guy was alive, he didn't do anything to settle with them, why are they forcing it now?
Send me invitation, I'll attend then disappear as I have always done. If they need my help, they'll ask. If not, ko baje.
@IwaRereLoju@Olalincoln2@Only1Etubo A quick THOUGHT! Why hasn't the maternal family members that RAISED HIM said anything or granted any interviews?
It's ALWAYS the deadbeats
@Olalincoln2@Only1Etubo Are your family in constant contact with you? Do they visit you well and you them? Is there a good amount of rapport between your family and theirs?
If your answers are YES, then they CANNOT leave you to her because you all treat yourselves as one family.
That's the difference
@_DebbieOA The fact that some families don't have itiju is worrisome!
Your child in his 30+ abi 40+ life NEVER looked for you, NEVER gave you a second of chance in any decision he made...you are there now to call shots!
Have some dignity and face front like you did when he was alive.
@Olalincoln2@Only1Etubo Family that WASN'T in touch with the guy BEFORE his demise SHOULDN'T call shots on how he is buried.
His wife who NEVER left him when he had NOTHING should BE ALLOWED to decide
The other day, one sister lamented on how her husband left her with 7 children. Some of us asked what she looked at till she gave birth to 7.
This one removed 2 pregnancies because her husband isn't completely reliable and some of us are blaming her.
O wa ga bayii o ๐