A very confrontational and passionate man who will not sleep until theyโve smoothed things over with you. Those ones come with another type of madness but youโll feel lighter after hashing it out with them ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
If you have an intense soul, you need to pour that intensity into your hobbies/art. That energy needs to go somewhere or it'll swallow you. Your depth must have a purpose. Create your own worlds, that you and other like minded people can escape into. You have a super power.
whenever discussions about suicide come up i always return to this video. itโs the most poignant and empathetic thing i have ever heard someone say on the matter.
๐จ SOMETHING CHANGEDโฆ AND I KNOW IโM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS IT. Life used to feel ALIVE. Summers felt endless, experiences actually became memories, music attached itself to entire chapters of your life, and even ordinary days somehow had a feeling you could remember years later. Now everything feels like a blur. You wake up Monday and somehow itโs Friday. January turns into August before youโve even processed what happened. People are everywhere, yet genuine connection feels harder to find. We have unlimited ways to communicate but somehow feel more distant than ever. Everybody is scrolling, rushing, consuming, survivingโwaiting for life to start while LIFE is literally passing us by. Maybe itโs technology. Maybe itโs stress. Maybe 2020 affected the human mind more deeply than we realize. Maybe itโs something we havenโt even figured out yet. But whatever happened, the world before 2020 feels like a place we remember but canโt return to. The scary part isnโt that time is moving fastโฆitโs realizing how much of our lives are disappearing with it.
Please tell me Iโm not the only one who feels this.๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฅน
My therapist once said: โA man is supposed to come into your life and demonstrate that being with him is better than the peace you already have.โ๏ฟผ
Some women don't flirt with people. They flirt with life. Extra twenty minutes at the cafรฉ. Fresh flowers for no reason. Music while getting dressed. Taking the scenic way because the sky looks good. There's romance happening between her and being alive.
The whimsy is a decoy. The most intelligent, militant minded, LETHALLY gifted people I know are VERY playful bc they have a side that is EXTREMELY venomous and even THEY are afraid of what happens when the scales tip just a LITTTTTTTLE too much. Tread lightly thinking that bc ppl CHOOSE peace that they arenโt skilled at war. Theyโre hidden in plain sightโฆ not powerless.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?