Y’all say y’all want deep, long lasting relationships but don’t know how to have tough convos, handle conflict & confrontation, you don’t place boundaries, you don’t respect boundaries, you lack empathy, you aren’t emotionally available & you do nothing to actively change that.
Everyone supports mental health until your coping doesn’t look cute. Until you isolate. Until you shut down. Until you stop explaining yourself. Then it’s “you changed.” No. I survived something you didn’t have to.
ngl, it frustrates me that i always want to fix things. like i always wanna talk things out and it’s like….when there’s no clarity, no real ending, i end up stuck overthinking the same situation again and again.
stop getting so emotionally attached and enjoy experiences with a person. be friends. be a moment in time. be a memory. you don't have to fall madly in love with everyone who comes your way. just enjoy their presence for your moment together.
i don't like being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self-regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you're harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
I peep EVERYTHING. How you talk to me, how you show up, how you move when things aren’t convenient. I don’t force understanding, I don’t beg adults to act grown, I just adjust. I match effort with effort, energy with energy. My access to you will look like how you show up for me.
i want to be your second priority. Your first priority should be you - YOUR ambitions, your life, and your future. Stay focused! I want the best for you. Don't let me be a distraction; let me be your motivation, your support, and your partner in growth.
I’m grown enough to admit I’m not the easiest person to love. Life put me through a lot, so yeah… I overthink, I get triggered quick, I shut down, and sometimes I don’t even make sense. I’m sensitive as hell and I need patience.
But one thing about me? My love is REAL.
The things about a high maintenance femme is that they’re always the princess and always the baby and always correct and that’s kind of just how it is. I hope you love cooking and giving compliments and giving gifts bc I sure do