There is a reason pelumi is still considered one of my very good friends. Every milestone of her life she still tells me despite not being as close as before. We both built completely different lives but i am still notified on important achievements.
If you know the person you’re dating is a serial abuser and your friends/family are begging you to leave him, but you still choose to stay, then you might be an idiot.
I really don’t play with people being casually cruel to women no matter what social or critical lens you put it through.
The world is cruel enough to us, I will never ever support or unlook anyone being unkind to women with no reason.