You are your own worst enemy, wasting precious time dreaming of the future instead of engaging in the present. Since nothing seems urgent to you, you are only half involved in what you do.
Most men follow society's advice, and that directly leads them into a life full of misery. Does society really want you to be the best version of yourself ? NO!
If you are weak,you are easy to control. That is why you have been getting weakened without even being award of it.