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gemini. BLESSED.

[tired! @iloveyoutoye]

always remember, someone's effort is a reflection of their interest in you.

[Max The Airbnb Guy @Maxtheairbnbguy]

The moment you find yourself begging for respect, pleading for care, negotiating for affection, or crying for reciprocation, something has already gone terribly wrong. You are no longer in a partnership. You are in a negotiation with someone who has already shown you they are not willing to give freely.

I used to be that person.

I remember a night on a call with her, crying, begging for reciprocation. Begging for her to care for me the way I poured into her. Begging for her to love me the way I loved her. I was not asking for too much. I was asking for the bare minimum. And I was shattered that I even had to ask.

That night, I lost it completely. I became a shadow of myself.

I did not recognise the person I had become. I was someone who had abandoned his own dignity in the name of love. I was someone who thought that if I just tried harder, explained better, cried louder, she would finally see me. But she did not. She could not. Because you cannot teach someone to value you. You cannot convince someone to care. You cannot beg someone into loving you.

The moment you have to ask for the basics, the relationship is already over

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Full transparency... I don't think l've ever experienced someone being deeply in love with me. I've been liked. I've been wanted. But I still dream about the kind of love where someone chooses me wholeheartedly every single day.

[Loveth @Thelove_Th]

The longer you live, the more you realize you have to pray about everything; it really is that serious.

[🖤 @loves5o]

never, ever date a man who lacks emotional intelligence. you'll spend the entire relationship explaining things he should’ve understood on his own.

[Wilinfeels @wilinfeels]

Anything a MAN does to lighten your load makes him a provider. Everything's not about MONEY!

[Leeebangaa.ota @leeebangaa]

lon hesitate to apologize I hate beefing with the queen

[KAI-LEL @KLuvThaVirgo1]

Not a single scar on my heart came from my enemies.

They all came from people I thought loved me.

[mavo‎‎ @omarvyy]

can’t believe i really thought they cared

[ZARIA @zariaz1]

i'm not as disrespectful as i could be and for that i think people should be more grateful.

[leo @_belikeleo]

nothing hurts more than seeing yourself again in the same situation after getting better for a while....

[Lara @Tick_3310]

GiRl, if he can watch you slowly lose feelings for him and still do nothing…

let him lose you.

[𝐘𝐯𝐞𝐬 @thenayvuiiiton]

Nobody will be meaner to you than an insecure man who is attracted to you.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

A man’s idea of “peace” is often just a woman staying quiet while he keeps hurting her.

[H O N E Y @HoneyTooRaw]

i’m way too solid to be half loved, half respected, or half appreciated.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

fortunately i do give up on people. you can’t continuously drain me, disappoint me, and disrespect me while expecting me to keep being around

[wow steff actually @steffanymoneque]

I just let people be who they are. Now whether you’re allowed to be around me is a completely separate thing.

[FRADO @fradobaby]

Y’all can have the hoe I give up

[m a @llm12a]

did hurting me help ur ego bitch