someone on tiktok said walking away from people who can’t show up for you may feel lonely but you’re already lonely with them and it altered my brain chemistry lol
going through a phase rn , i think i’ve finally came in terms with letting a lot of stuff go . including , feelings , ppl , fears , just everything . it’s time for new beginnings , new chapters that brings happiness , love &’ endless memories . it’s time to move on w life . 🤎
Right now life is teaching me the law of detachment. nothing is really yours, you have to be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is & moving on when it’s time.
my therapist once told me that “someone who's emotionally unavailable can often make someone who's emotionally available feel like their basic needs are too much” i'll honestly never forget that...
You don’t obsess over someone who makes you feel safe. You obsess over the one who keeps you guessing. Where you stand. What they meant. If they meant it. You end up decoding conversations, replaying silence, trying to solve the tension that they created.
How to stop.. a thread: