@ralikeray community is an illusion
unless you're famous you aren't being treated any differently
all depends if you're dependent on others' validation or not
What nobody tells you about ADHD treatment is that if you relied on anxiety to get things done before, once that anxiety is treated, your brain sometimes has no idea how to function without the adrenaline rush of last-minute panic.
30 yaşımdan sonra nihayet bir gerçeği keşfettim: tüm ilişkiler sonunda solup gider. Çocukluk arkadaşlarımla çoktan iletişimim kesildi, sınıf arkadaşlarımla olan dostluğum yavaş yavaş dağıldı ve iş yerinde eskiden iyi anlaştığım meslektaşlarım hiçbir etkileşimde bulunmadan ayrıldılar. Anne babam yavaş yavaş yaşlanıyor ve beni terk edecekleri gün giderek yaklaşıyor. Çocuklarım yavaş yavaş büyüyor ve benden giderek daha da uzaklaşıyorlar.
Hayat aslında çok kısa, sadece birkaç geçici on yıl. Bir gün uyanırsınız ve o gün bir gündür; bir gün uyanırsınız ve o bir ömür olmaz. Her günü kıymetlendirin, yapmak istediğinizi yapın ve sevmek istediğiniz kişiyi sevin.
Ever since I learned about the way the subconscious mind works, I take people mistreating me so much more seriously.
People mistreating you are programming "worthlessness" into your subconscious, and that literally alters the course of your life.
@astro_greek Probably only interesting if you're using money to try and associate with people you perceive to be "higher" class than you. Otherwise, why would anyone aim to associate with random people
Lots of parents will project their own shame on their kids. The kids will grow up being so ashamed of themselves without rly knowing why and being gaslit into thinking their parents are ‘above’ them. Then the kid who is subconsciously selected as the scapegoated child will be diagnosed with some mental disorder and the parents will act in the saviour role driving them to all the appointments to get them medicated and numb out their truth even more. Fr the emotional environment of many ‘normal’ households are like a horror movie
@NoahRyanCo Pretty sure almost zero highly successful people cook themselves either. The middle solution is just go to the 5-10min drive yourself, and get a big order from somewhere and eat half today half tomorrow. Repeat every 2 days
This boils my blood. My cooked chicken smells and tastes like laundry soap, the perfumed kind.
Grok says that is likely due to added phosphates, yet this chicken advertises no additives, and the ingredient has one item: Chicken.
I figured out why, by sniffing.
The additives are in the pad under the meat, where they don't have to be listed in the ingredients.
Bastards.
@Thzer0r works well for people you never see again, or if a shred of respect or cooperation is not required, because you're going to be hated and spited. otherwise, the best negotiation is built on trust and good will